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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 1 decade ago

Boy Problem please help?

There is this guy who I really like who I have the hots for. He is so much better than my exboyfriend. He treats me better, he respects me, he cares when I am upset. He is much fun to hang out with. He acts like my boyfriend even though we are not dating. he is always touching me. When I am upset he is always trying to make me feel better and to put a smile on my face. I really like him but I dont know if he likes me or jsut wants to be friends. I want him to know how I feel about him and I want to know how he feels about me. Do you guys have any advice on what to do. Thanks in advance for your help?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    tell him how you feel.!

  • 1 decade ago

    I'd tell him I was interested in being more than friends and curious if he felt the same. If you're uncomfortable with being the initiator, then just wait for him to make his move. It's best to know what your needs are and only consider guys who can meet them. If you need a guy to be the initiator...then only date guys who are willing to initiate dating. :)

    I've also found late night intimate movie parties a great way to show interest and give the guy an opening. Be cautious though...some guys will read this as 'ooh, SEX!' and you'll have to initiate an exit plan. Tell 4 girlfriends to call you in 30 minute intervals. If he's giving you the 'ooh, SEX!' moves, then answer the phone and say "Sure you can come over! We'll see you in a bit.". He'll know things can't progress since a friend will be by in a few minutes. With any luck he'll also understand that you're not interested in having only sex since you gave the ok for the friend to come over.

    Yeah, yeah it's sneaky...but it's always wise to have several nets in place if you get into a sticky situation.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I really got the impression that you adore this guy and feel in heaven when you r with him! If you don't care about pride of falling for him and don't want 2 wait maybe he makes the first move, just go and tell him the truth of how you feel about him. It may be very hard because I had experiences like this, but I never went and told my feeling to someone even if I'm obsessed about him, but I admire girls that have the guts to go and face him and tell him that you really like him. I think you should go and tell him, I'm sure you will feel better :)

  • 1 decade ago

    That's a tough spot! If you tell him hoe you feel you might not get the answer you want and loose a friend! But on the other hand if you tell him he may feel the same....here is my suggestion,go do something in a romantic setting just the 2 of you and see what happens,if he looks you deeply in the eyes alot then he has the same feelings.

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  • 1 decade ago

    hey girl! Its always so confusing when all the stuff that usually happens DURING dating is happening and yet it hasn't been made ''official''...But i guess he just wants to take it slow and analyse whether the both of you are ready for a relationship with each other.So maybe hold on a little while longer and enjoy whats going on! Just think that even at the slightest chance that ya'll dont officially start dating...you both would probably end up the best of friends(which is just as precious!)

    All the best!

  • 1 decade ago

    Talk to him, what have you got to lose. Just tell him how you feel and if he doesn't feel the same way then atleast you can try and get over him but you'll never be able to move on if you keep wondering if he might have liked you back.

  • 1 decade ago

    It sounds like he really does like you.

    Just relax and enjoy the relationship, it sounds like you are on a good path. If you feel you need to, find a good, private, moment and tell him how much you value his friendship and that you really appreciate his efforts to help you and make you feel better and you really like the way he makes you feel. Guys LOVE to be appreciated.

    Don't get hung up on defining the relationship. It sounds like you have something really good going on. Just relax and enjoy having it unfold.

  • 1 decade ago

    Well, if he is touching you and no other girls, he probably feels the same way. If your going to tell him about your feelings toward him, to just flat out tell him, give him small clues every once and a while, so you can retreat if something goes wrong.

  • 1 decade ago

    Ok. Wellz when this guy said he liked me. It got me kind of scared. But when i thought about it. I said wow he is one of the first to admit that. And i thought wow he is brave to do that. Wellz sweety i haven't told my crush that i like him. But im not saying you shouldn't im saying when you build the confidence to tell him, you should. You should get to know more about him. Then when you are really sure that you like him. Then you ask him out. If he liked or loved the date he'll ask you out again. Or will kiss you. So i wish you Good Luck!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I think you should talk face to face with him and tell him everything you've told us. Or, you could be shy and just email him your feelings. Either way, you're going to burst if you don't say anything.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    COMMUNICATION...talk with him,tell him all of this feelings you have.You may be missing out on the "Mr. Right" of your lifetime,don't keep things inside and just wonder.Take action NOW before it's too late.Good luck.

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