i need some advice on this boy?

okay you have to understand this first. im very super duper shy. okay, theres this boy at my schoo and i love him sooooo much and i want him sooo badly. but i got some problems that make me even more shy to talk to him. some girls told him that i like him and i have a journal about him. i dont even know how thoses girls found out. i dont know what hell think i dont want him to think im some crazy phsyco! i really want to talk tohim but i dont know how. im soooooooooooooooooo shy. and i mean shy.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    just talk to him... cant be that hard...

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Its heard to say, depends on the boy, if he is some popular boy at school and you aint, then stay away because he would only laugh at you, for them girls to tell him that, they like him and find it funny you have a crush on him, so might he, unless he is a lovely and quiet boy, them im sorry my love but you just have to pick yourself up and talk to him, find a subject he is good at and ask him for help maybe, it all depends on the boy, what hes like, who he is mates with... just be careful because if he does make fun of you, you will not want to go back to school and become very upset

  • ?
    Lv 4
    4 years ago

    adult adult males have their very own stuff to handle. classes do suck- i'm no longer denying that. yet, i'm going to take cramps over a public *****. Dudes are apparently constantly sneaking around attempting to shift issues around so it is not glaring. teen adult adult males have plenty testosterone of their structures that they'd purely be doing homework and swiftly, it particularly is like, "hi down there, what are you doing?" (That has happened to adult adult males i understand). additionally, if a dude has a ***** in college, each and every person laughs at him. If a woman has a leak on her era, the girls sympathize and the lads are terrified. additionally, females get a favorable thought of what it potential to be a woman. There are far greater help communities for women than for adult adult males. Boys improve up with out fathers, with destructive portrayals of fellows and fathers in fairly some media (fathers are constantly incompetent whilst in comparison with the mothers, or purely choose intercourse, etc) and no training in a thank you to extremely substitute right into a guy. i'm fortunate adequate to be with a guy who's what i could call a gentleman of the old college. we are equivalent, yet we are additionally distinctive. We supplement one yet another's transformations. in spite of the undeniable fact that, maximum adult adult males are not so fortunate and are not getting the solid male community that they choose. additionally, they get drafted. In Israel, females get drafted too, yet for a year decrease than boys do. Boys have their very own issues. All issues seen, i could particularly be a woman. (additionally, whilst it particularly is chilly, we are able to scouse borrow their jackets. And as quickly as we are snuggling staring at a action picture or enjoying video games, females get to scouse borrow the blanket. And boys purchase us stuff. and that they often make the 1st pass romantically. And...you get my element. females have it greater suited.)

  • 1 decade ago

    I say you really have to get over the shy and say something to him. You can't just let him keep hearing all this stuff from other people, you'll never be able to get over this guy if you cannot face him, and you'll never be able to be with this guy either if you cannot talk to him.

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  • 1 decade ago

    im da same way as you but i got threw it now im a expert there iz a differnce btween when you like some 1 or when you luv dont try so hard b yaself do somthin you would yull b surprized

  • 1 decade ago

    Stop being shy and always tell what u feel and think..

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    well,try to do little things first like dropa book by him so he will notice and pick it up.and be like thanks....after that just say hey in the hallways then ask for his SC...then just talk to him more ...ask for his phone number

  • 1 decade ago

    you need to breakw out of the shyness and you need to go up and ask him and how do you know its love . i mean one day it could be love then another day another boy could come along and you could lioke him take your time .

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  • 1 decade ago

    you don't have to be shy......, be bold if anything happens that boy will be any way shy ,,, okay

    see you then

    bye bye

  • 1 decade ago

    slip him a note with your e-mail and maybe he'll start chatting with you

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    being shy will get u nowhere babes!!! this is life..dare it!!!

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