My ex (whom we share 2 children with) bought me...?

Question

A christmas gift...i know it sounds weird but we broke up and he is with some one else...Am I obligated to get him something beyond what I am giving him from the kids?

Update:

Its not that I haven't thought about getting him something honestly but his new gf has a lot of issues with me and I don't want to step on anyone's toes let alone her's and cause a fight over christams.....

Answer 1

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honey I did that for my ex last year... I saw a book that was titled fathers from barnes & nobles & gave it to him. why? b/c hes my sons father, i still love him, & wanted him to know how much he means to me & my son. I wasnt expecting anything in return & when he told he didnt get my anything in return I said that fine & that I wasnt expecting one anyway & he took it in stride & that was it..

tell him how you feel.. maybe he saw that & thought of you & just wanted to be nice. just take it in stride...

Answer 2

Get him something generic that shows you care, but not too flashy. Box of cigars, something for his car/truck... nothing too expensive, or anything that would make the new girl jealous. But don't feel obligated.

Answer 3

No u are not obligated to but u could be nice and return the favour

Answer 4

No, you are not. He just probably did it out of kindness. But you are not obligated to do the same.

Answer 5

indeed

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