When is it okay to say I love you when you're in a relationship?

I'm with the girl for two months and I really think she is the one I want to spend my life with, what's the best way to tell her that I love her?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Look in her eyes and tell her.

  • 1 decade ago

    I used to date people that would say it way too soon, before they knew me. Then I would be pressured into saying it before I meant it. I think people should say it when they feel it, not in the race to say it first. If you are on a date, find a quiet spot or over dinner when the two of you are talking and being romantic and just be straight- not too serious-- and just say it. Tell her why you love her, that she's special, etc. I would think about how you think she'll handle it. And don't get offended if she doesn't say it back, that doesn't mean she doesn't feel the same way. She might just need more time to say it.

  • 1 decade ago

    Just tell her you love her. People often mistake saying "I love you" with "I'm in love with you". Which one is it? It's fine to tell her you love her. My man told me he loved me after only two weeks of dating. At first I was scared but I began to think what it really means. Saying you love someone is okay because love just means that you have love for them and you don't want to see anything bad happen to them. You can love someone you hardly know just by spending time with them. It's been almost two months and me and my man are still together.

    Good luck

  • 1 decade ago

    When you love someone you should tell them you love them as soon as possible. You never know if you will see that person a second from now, a minute or at all. Tragedies and accidents occur every second. When you feel something you should always express it. Don't worry if she responds, that's not the reason you are telling her that beautiful expression. Make sure you know exactly that it's love and not lust.

    Source(s): myself
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  • 1 decade ago

    Ask her out for a diner and say you have something important to tell her. After the meal if she seems happy, stroll together on a street decorated with holiday lights or nearby a romantic lake, river, you know any places romantic. Tell her when she is totally relaxed. Check the weather forecast before you plan this!

  • 1 decade ago

    wen you're sure it's love that you feel

    but since it's been 2 months... that might not seem long enough to some people... even to her... so don't push her to feel the same way... wen you do tell her... tell her how much she means to you <but don't be psychotic and say I'LL DIE FOR YOU RIGHT HERE AND NOW TO PROVE IT> tell her you realize it's been 2 months but she's really special and that you truly do love her... but also say... i don't expect you to feel the same way right here and now but i hope in the future near or far... that you'll understand my love and feel the same way to

    however you decide to say it... don't make her feel obligated 2 say it back... don't expect her to say it back.. but say it w/out want... think of it as a gift... wen u give someone something... in this case your heart... don't expect a gift back in return... in most cases... if the person feels grateful and the same way... they'll give you a gift back regardless

    give her time... don't pressure her... don't make your love soud "crazy" ^^ but tell her and be honest

  • 1 decade ago

    Think hard about this. The word love is thrown around to much these days.

    The first thing you need to do is really investigate what you think love really means.

    If you're not going to mean it in a month or a year or a lifetime, don't say it.

  • 1 decade ago

    If you have been spending every waking moment with her, go ahead and tell her. If you think she's going to say it, let her 1st.

    If you do tell her, the best way is to look into her eyes, hold her hands and tell her straight out.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Whenever you feel it. You will know when the right time is, no one can give you that answer. Sometimes it's the first day, sometimes you don't say it for months. Listen to your heart !

  • 1 decade ago

    I am that chick(so to speak) I want to hear it soo bad I can't see straight... I am so in love with him and I asked him about 2 weeks ago when I was aloud to fall in love with him, he said it was too soon...but I KNOW he is in love with me now...but i don't want to be the first one to say it...just in case... BTW, we have been together since sept/october... DO IT!!!!! expecially if you feel it from her too!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    If that is how you feel, then say it. I told my bf after 2 months that I loved him and we are still strong. I believe if you really feel it, then it is alright to say it.

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