it is good to have a boyfriend that live far away like 6hrs away?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    It's hard to say, you see when you get into a relationship you want to be close to that person, you want to go on dates and just do things together, go over for a movie, that sort of stuff. And it cant be healthy because as the weeks, months go by your gonna want more, after the uuusss and aahhhs of the beginning.

    Then you get discurraged when you cant see him, or he cant come over. Its hard, they say love is the strength, but you understand right, when you love you want to be able to spend time with that person.

    The only reason I know is because I went through it, and at first it was cool and all but later it wasnt, so he broke up with me b/c he wasnt comming back and he said it wasnt fair for me.

  • vora
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    4 years ago

    even if it truly is meant to be, it truly is going to likely be. i'd recommend you end college yet i comprehend it truly is a demanding element once you're in love. Plus you're very youthful, so i imagine you need to take a at the same time as My actual suggestion is to attend and note in case you and him have that "element" for each after 6 months of being aside. if so and in case you nevertheless sense an same (and he does too), then ask your self in case you need to provide all of it up for him. keep in mind that transferring to a unique city so some distance away does no longer recommend you need to furnish each and every thing up, you are able to move faculties and stumble on a sparkling pastime... you purely must be keen to make a good type of sacrifices to finish that and it received't take position quick. After 2 months i'd also make preparations to visit him in his new city for various days so that you'll locate the way it is going with purely you and him.

  • 1 decade ago

    Well, it all depends. Is love involved? Is your hometown the "6 hr away" location? or did you meet someone, somehow 6 hours away? if its your h-town,it could work, when u go to visit your "Homies" like maybe the family, u could see him then, if not its gonna be difficult. He will only "Be there 4 u, by way of phone, so u gotta ask yourself, will that work 4 u?

  • 1 decade ago

    Long distance relationships are hard, but people who has good trust, it may work. Depends how deep you are commited. If you are willing to drive 6 hours everytime you see him, thats very serious relationship.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    well.... problably not bc he might be cheating on you or something like that. but if you do then you two can make a plan to meet once or twice a month

  • 1 decade ago

    well i think its okay because my boyfriend lives like in south carolina and i live in alabama but its because he is in the marines he use to live down the road....

  • 1 decade ago

    I think it depends if u guys have trust... if u trust him then yeah its fine but if u have any doubts then i'd end it as soon as possible

  • 1 decade ago

    Are you asking a question or making a statement?

  • 1 decade ago

    if you think you can trust him...i won't bc i like to have my man right there with me at night...so if you think you can handle him around many differnet women go for it...you must really trust him

  • 1 decade ago

    Not a good idea.

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