Why do the nice guys choose a slutty girl over a conservative female like myself?

In high school I was dating the most handsome guy in school. The relationship was going swell. He later suggested that we break up. Although I didn't know why, I agreed with him because my pride wouldn't allow me to let him dump me. He then begins dating a really trashy girl that treated him like ****. What went wrong?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    because he is a teenage boy, he has only onething on his mind "getting laid" he went after the slutty girl because she probably puts out. forget about him he isnt ready for commitment.

  • Mary
    Lv 4
    4 years ago

    not all girls who are sexually active are slu+s, you can have a bf and still be conservative, you can still be conservative even if you have had sex. moving on, its high school guys, they mainly just want a piece. most probably don't even care what the girl looks like as long as she puts out. Now not every high school guy is like that, you just hear about the negative more than you do the positive. Besides if that's all one comes across, maybe they should look at the people they go after and why.

  • 1 decade ago

    As youth a lot of importance is placed on this activity and little thought of how reputations will follow you throughout your life is even thought of. A lot of young females are going to be surprised when they indeed do mature and want to find a lasting relationship because many of these same males that favour them today will not give them a second thought as far as long term relationships go. A young lady like yourself will not have any problem later on in life not only getting the attention of males but getting males that are mature and proud to be seen going out with you. Best of luck and have a great Christmas.

    Source(s): 51 years life experience
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    They like the quick, easy a s s they can get from these girls. They are low maintenance and the guy knows he doesnt have to treat her like a lady. All he has do is basically be there and he gets what he wants. A good girl like you... (sorry, but why would a self respecting conservative woman call herself a gutta chick?) has to be treated right and that takes time, dedication and effort to make her feel like she's in a good relationship. Maybe they dont wanna put that effort in- a s s is all they need and if they can get it easily from a s lut, they'll take whatever comes easiest instead of having to work to get it from you.

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  • 1 decade ago

    He wants to feel her up that is why and if she is slutty well she is giving him lots of candy, he is an idiot for wanting to leave you for another girl that is trashy and slutty, he should be ashamed of himself, at least you know the type of girl that you are and will get much better than him anyway. Take care of yourself

  • 1 decade ago

    All guys want to do alot of things before they really settle down so just wait maybe he will realize that he made a mistake and beg for u back. And when he does tell him u had ur chance.

  • 1 decade ago

    sorry to hear about that... most guys only want one thing especially in high school... some guys just like being treated like crap... like the saying goes nice guys always finish last the same goes for girls.. don't worry you'l find someone else who loves you for you and will take good care of you

  • 1 decade ago

    plain & simple: because the slutty girl gives it up. in high school boys are not serious about relationships...they're just looking for some boo-tay! even after high school, a lot of men are just looking for boo-tay! so consider it a blessing in disguise... he probably has some grody STD by now.

    Source(s): life
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    80% of guys are like that , they like a girl who can entertain them in bed so easy.

    but if a guy accepts you the way you are , then he wants you for who you are.

    you better know that a handsome guy can have so many options , therefore being with a handsome guy has its own challenges to keep him for yourself only all the time.

  • 1 decade ago

    For the opposite reason women prefer guys that treat them like crap. When younger, lots of women prefer a challenge and men don't. After maturing you see people for who they really are.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    'cause she put out?

    or...

    Some people think that if there isn't conflict in a relationship, there's something wrong. Maybe he grew up in a house that the parents fought all the time. He probably thinks that is normal.

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