chetzel asked in Social SciencePsychology · 1 decade ago

How do you find yourself?

I have no clue what I want, or where I want to be. I dont know what to look for in life, or anything. I am comlpetly and utterly confused?

Any advice on how to find answers

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Find your likes dislikes write them down. Findwhat job interests you might like. Think of jobs that are needed. Ask yourself whether you would like to be married or not. What hobbies do you like.Do something motivating.

  • Thomas
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    Learn, study, and practice The Four Noble Truths, The Noble Eightfold Path, and Mindfulness of Breathing. You will obtain a clear understanding, and all the answers you need. Type in this info. as well as Mindfulness

    Meditation, which increases cognitive thinking, gives one a clear sound mind in making decisions, improves memory and intellect, produces peace and happiness, erradicates anger, produces Patience, and a calm mentality.

    Produces excellent healthy, whole, self esteem and self confidence. There are many other benefits as well. All from only practicing Mindfulness Meditation 10 min. a day, and from strudying and practicing the 4 Noble(noble means of excellent character) Truths, and The Eightfold Path of the Householder.

    Do a search on the internet, you'll discover all the info. you need on these important topics, and your definately benefit from the results of the practice.

    They will answer all your questions concerning what you really want, where I want to be, and accomplish in life, your purpose in life, and how to end suffering in your life and obtain Peace and Happiness !!!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Thank you for asking. The self is beyond these bodies,ie; race, color, religion, nationality, job, etc. We are eternal spirit souls, part and parcel of the Supreme Soul. We have an eternal Dharma (occupation) which is to reconnect with the Absolute Truth. The quickest and easiest way to do that is to chant the Maha Mantra (the great mantra for deliverance from suffering and illusion. Go to krishnaculture. for complete details on how to find your real self and occupation. Read- Dharma By Bhaktivedanta Prabhupada and Bhagavad Gita As it is. This will bring one to the highest knowing of yourself.

  • Annie
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    You didn't say how old you are, and whether you are still in school. If not, then get a job, any job you can get. If you don't like it, figure out what you don't like about it, and what job you think would suit you better. Find out what qualifications you need (eg education) for that job, and go for it! If you decide you don't like that job, repeat the process. Good Luck!!

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  • 1 decade ago

    You will know when you find yourself, because you will be satisfied with yourself. No more insecurities, dissatisfaction, etc. Pity that this normally only happens after retirement. So keep striving to make yourself happy in the meantime! Works for me ;)

  • 1 decade ago

    Suffer and strain to reach a goal. Doesn't really matter what the goal is, just pick one and go after it. When you hit it, do another one.

    You sound really young. If you are, bust *** in school and learn to be socially competent.

  • Miki
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    sometimes u travel far to find yourself only to come to realize that u were here all along.

    or

    u can read the bibe, write in a journal. i don't always understand what exactly people mean when they say find yourself.

    Source(s): my own philosophy
  • jose m
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    WELCOME TO MY WORLD I FEEL THE SAME WAY I JUST WORK JUST BECAUSE I DONT KNOW ANYTHING ANYMORE. I JUST GO WITH THE FLOW OF LIFE AND TRY TO DO GOOD MAYBE IF I HANG TIGHT N I DONT LOOSE IT I WILL FIND WHATS MY PAT ON LIFE

  • 1 decade ago

    Pray this process takes time

  • 1 decade ago

    look in the closet... maybe u can find yourself..or in the kitchen........

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