Anonymous
Anonymous asked in Pregnancy & ParentingPregnancy · 1 decade ago

what is going on?

whats the best way to tell my parents, and boyfriend that im pregnant.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Just tell them the truth and do not beat around the bush about it.. how old are you? is it going to be a total shock to them? you might try to break it slowly...

  • KD
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    1 decade ago

    You're going to have to rip that band-aid right off.

    Take a deep breath. It's probably going to be the most difficult conversation you'll ever have. Hopefully, you can start with one of them, and then bring the others into the conversation. Pick the one you think it will be the easiest to talk to, and the go from there. But you're going to have to be very honest with them. Do some searches online today to get information about pregnancy, adoption, abortion, counseling, marriage, college, childcare, all of your options, so you know what you'll be discussing with them, because they'll bring up all of these issues. You're fast-forwarding to adulthood, so you're going to have to have your ducks in a row. See if you can find a counseling or support resource online or over the phone, and get information about services in your area.

    Good luck, be brave, and I hope everything ends up OK.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    well, if your comfortable with your boyfriend then just tell him. is he not going to be expecting this? with your parents, if your nervous or something, write them a letter, that's what I do when I'm too nervous to tell someone something. That way you can't change your mind and chicken out about telling them. Leave it in there room on there bed or something.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Well, that hard to say because we don't know what your relationship is like and if they will be excited/upset/mad/sad, etc...I would suggest telling your boyfriend though before you break the news to your parents. Good luck!

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  • 1 decade ago

    Straight talk, no excuses, and ask for guidance going forward. Make them a part of the solution, even though they were part of your problem.

    Three ways to deal with the pregnance. If it is acceptable, raise the child If it is unwanted and you have time, abort. If not, give up for adoption.

  • 1 decade ago

    if i was in this situation i would write them a note telling them everything because i really dont likr to say things like that to someones face! just my opinion though,

  • 1 decade ago

    Open your mouth and tell them. No sense beating around the bush.

    You could always wait until you're showing and let them figure it out on their own.

  • 1 decade ago

    do it at christmas and just say we'll next year i think i'll be needing new furniture for the nursery. or something like that.

  • 1 decade ago

    dont

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