if you did not like doing something for your partner would you do it anyway to make them happy?

would you do something that you don't like doing it could be anything just to make him happy?i know people say love but love don't hurt just to get a point across he don't hit me but it is other things that he think that he got to have.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    Depends.

  • 1 decade ago

    If your partner Really likes broccoli, but it makes you yak, does that mean you should never serve him broccoli with his dinner?

    Sometimes love means giving the partner what they like without regards to whether you personally like the same thing. Doesn't mean you have to offer it every day either...

    If partner liked peanuts, but you know that you're so allergic that you will become violently ill from even handling them, then your partner just needs to grow up and get used to not having every thing he wants.

    Sometime love means giving up on something you think you want in favor of your partner's well-being.

    Sounds to me like you're describing some sexual favor he's asking for, but which would not be particularly fun or even healthy for you. If that's the case, it is reasonable for you to decline. You should decide whether what he's asking for amounts to "broccoli' or if its more like "peanut butter".

  • 1 decade ago

    Relationships are NOT 50-50.... They ARE 100-100. You have to be able to sleep at night AND if you really do not want to do ANYTHING...Then you shouldn't. Maybe the other person has to accept you for who you are. And THAT includes NOT doing some things that you really do not want to do....Do not "perform" in desperation...There are "many fish out there"....Follow what your heart dictates.

    Good Luck!!!!

  • 1 decade ago

    I am not real sure I understand your question. Regaurdless of what he is doing, If you are not comfortable, or it hurts, or you just don't want it done to you - than stand up for you!!! You are the one that makes decisions for your life and what happens in it. Never, never, never let anyone do anything to you that you don't want or don't like. STAND UP FOR YOU - You are the most important thing in your world, take care of you!!!

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  • 1 decade ago

    I would and I have done things I don't like just to make husband happy, but there are some things i would not do. I would not violate my own conscience to make him happy.

  • 1 decade ago

    Do only what you want to do!! each partner MUST respect each other if not dump the bastard and get a real man!!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    If you love someone you should be willing to do anything to make them happy.

  • 1 decade ago

    I do things for my husband I don't like like cook pig feet and put up with hi stupid friends

  • 1 decade ago

    it's up to u to give another..it's up to him to ask decently..as long as no one is abusing or forcing the other to get their way, then it's still a healthy relationship...anything beyond that is a bit freeky..and definitely wrong

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Depends on what it is. I wouldn't (for instance) rob a bank for anyone.

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