He had sex with my twin sister?

He had sex with my twin sister - a fantasy of his. Should I give him a taste of his own medicine? He's always too flirtatious and I tell him that it bothers me. I ask him to tone it down a bit and he says he'll never change. Now should be worried he'll have sex with my twin again? Should I be worried there will be others besides my twin since he's already cheated in the relationship? (I knew he was having sex with my twin). He says I've been a big B*t*h and I'm pushing him away but it wouldn't happen if we would listen to what I have to say and stop acting as if he's disowned me when my twin or other females are around he's flirting with. HELP!!!! What should I do? We are engaged and should be married in fall 07. My twin and he said that it was only a one time thing.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    My fantasy is a bit different: I am tied up on an “X” shaped cross dressed in red velvet, like Santa, horizontally positioned one meter over the floor, while a virgin girl of eighteen, standing over my face is pissing on me. Another girl has my member in her mouth, biting gently the glans while a third one, dressed in a nurse uniform gives me an enema with “Cordon Rouge” champagne.

    What I recommend is a threesome with your twin sister. Period

  • 1 decade ago

    Try asking yourself a couple of questions and see if the truth just can't be ignored so you know without doubt the decision you must make is the right one and you'll never look back....

    1. What would my parents say? I assume they don't..... If I was the father - I wouldn't want you to marry him.

    2. Some people say that once a cheat always a cheat..... I think it is safe to say he will cheat till he can't anymore.....

    3. Was your twin pissed off at you? She is your only twin sis and she gets the forgiveness pass... Keep an eye on her in the future, I would think she'll be capable of participating with your significant pretty much as long as she can!

    4. Why are you still with him? Your twin sister! That is low.... I knew a sister who dated her sisters ex-husband and most thought that was a little weird...!

    Walk away now - tell your sister he is officially available... dad will be so happy.....

  • JustMe
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    How many red flags have to be waved in front of you before you get the hint? He is a selfish jerk. He's blaming you for his behavior. If you were a ***** to him, Oh well he need to learn to deal with it, not go out and find some other girl, especially not your sister, to mess around with. You seem a bit too nonchalant about the whole thing. I would be extremely pissed at both of them. I would have kicked him to the curb the second I found out. My marrying him would have never been an issue, because he would no longer be in my life. Your sister on the other hand, I would have a hard time trusting her ever again. I would still love her, but my relationship would be changed forever.

  • 1 decade ago

    Your twin was way out of line, this is not tolerable or excusable behavior. Your twin and you should have a very long talk about his situation. why would she do such a thing? And as for him, leave him alone, do not marry him, he does not deserve you. He has not only cheated but with your twin. You need to figure this out before it is to late. You may very well love him, however, you better find some self love and respect. You deserves so much better. If you marry him, his behaviors are not going to change, and he has already proved himself unworthy, untrustworthy, not worth the time of day. Move on, fast!!!!!! Good luck and God bless****

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    While it is certainly not true that "once a cheater, always a cheater" (a simple saying for simple minds, like most such broad generalizations), neither is there any reason for you to continue to invest your time or emotions in this relationship. Scroll back up and read Diane S's statement. Take it to heart. Never mind, here it is: "Wow...he treats you this way....talks to you disrespectfully, cheats on you with your twin and you are still planning to marry him....you need a wake up slap girl.....it will only get worse and the marriage will never be a happy healthy one....move on ". I second that emotion.

  • 1 decade ago

    I've dated a guy who used to cheat on me with my best friend.... Unfortunately, I've married despite what my family and friends were saying at the time. He promised that it will never happen again, and that he's only done it get me upset. - he said that I've accused of him cheating and he put it to action... MAKING ME THE BAD PERSON! One advice... I am now divorced with two children. Please, you deserve someone better, and he's slept with your sister! Talk to your sister as well... IF I WERE YOU... I WOULD DUMP THE DUDE AND LEAVE YOUR SISTER ALONE FOR AWHILE... WHAT IF SHE DOES IT WITH YOUR FUTURE MAN! Not worth your heartache and your precious time.

    old saying " once a cheater, always a cheater"- so true. They'll never change. Invest your love and your future life to someone dedicated to you.... You'll see.... He will come some day.

    Source(s): Once dated and married a BASTER.
  • 4 years ago

    That's so hot! I wish I had a twin sister, and was female. Does red hair count?

  • 1 decade ago

    Why would you want to marry a man who has sleep with your sister. I don't care how many times he did it. It was wrong , besides once a cheater always a cheater. He isn't going to change and you should get out now, don't wait until you are married thinking that he is going to change. You deserve much better.

  • 1 decade ago

    Cut the relationship, first of all, no matter what no one should be sleeping with no one's twin sister. I dont know where to begin, first of all you need to break up with him, he will do it again, he dont value you as a women, where is ur dignity, you should have never allowed that. And second, where is your sister?? Have you talked to her, have you comfronted her about the matter. If it where to me, I will let her keep it, a guy who sleeps with anyone else other than you is not worthy of having any one who cares about him. I know you love him, but dont allow this to happen to you any longer. Sorry for being so rude, take care.

  • 1 decade ago

    SAY WHAT?? GIRL PLEASE DO NOT MARRIED THIS JERK..MARRIAGE IS FOR PEOPLE WHO HAVE TRUST IN EACH OTHER.. THIS DUDE DID THE UNTHINKABLE IF YOU MARRY HIM THIS WHOLE THING CAN BE BLAMED ON YOU.. BECAUSE YOU KNEW HE WAS AN JACKASSS AND STILL YOU FELT THE NEED TO TIE YOUR LIFE TO HIM.. LISTEN CHEATING ON YOU WITH ANOTHER WOMAN IS BAD ENOUGH BUT YOUR OWN BLOOD YOUR TWIN SISTER..HONEY PLEASE READ YOUR OWN QUESTION AND SEE HOW BAD THIS LOOK.. YOU DESERVE SOMETHING ELSE..BREAK UP WITH HIM THERE IS NO FORGIVENESS IF YOU THINK ABOUT IT REALLY GOOD AND JUST PICTURE HIM SLEEPING WITH YOUR SISTER I BET YOU WILL FIND THAT YOU DONT EVEN LOVE THIS DUMBASS!!! IT WOULD BE A GREAT MISTAKE.. IF I WERE YOU.... YOU KNOW WHAT I DO?? I WAIT TILL THE DAY OF THE WEDING AND SHOW UP DRESS TO KILL AND SAY.. SORRY IM CANCELLING THIS WEDDING IM GOING TO LAS VEGAS TO BET SOME MONEY..YOU SEE MONEY IS SOMETHING THAT YOU CAN LOOSE AND GAIN ALL THE TIME.. BUT YOUR PEACE OF MIND AND HAPPINESS ONCE IS GONE IS VERY HARD TO REGAIN THINK ABOUT IT AND PLEASE DO NOT MARRIED THIS JERK!! AND YOUR SISTER FORGIVE BUT DO NOT FORGET...KEEP YOUR MEN AWAY FROM HER.GOOD LUCK.

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