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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 1 decade ago

how many dates does it take for u to grow confidence in a guy?

so that it starts to become a deep relationship?thanks

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Depends upon how well you communicate and how truthful you are with each other.

  • 1 decade ago

    This really depends a LOT on the guy. I think that the number of dates and the amount of time that passes both count. On average, maybe like 12-15 dates or about 3-4 months. For me, this might be the earliest the relationship even starts to get at all deep.

    I think that more than the number of dates, there are other indicators. The best indicator of the depth of relationship is whether the couple feels comfortable disagreeing with each other, or discussing things that bother them about each other. When you have crossed into that area and the relationship gets stronger rather than falling apart, you know you are getting in deep.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    That all depends on you. Only you can tell when you feel comfortable enough to take a relationship to the next level. Sometimes you feel like you know the other person for a long time just after the second date, while other times you go with someone for months and you still feel like you are not clicking.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    It doesnt really take a specific number of dates. It really depends on how much you and the guy have in common. Or the way you react when you're together. It could be one date, or 10. Try to build confidence. :]

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    It all depends on if yall tell 1 another everythng and if u can look into his eyes and c that he likes/loves u! or yall could just talk about yall relationship..that never hurts anything plus u could find out what he want and likes in a relationship and in a girl if u listen.

  • 1 decade ago

    depends on how things go between you two. i would say, for a deep relationship, like, 6 or seven if you see him outside of dates more than twice a week. if not, then like 8 or nine. but this is just me, so dont trust me completely....

  • 1 decade ago

    it all depends upon both people involved in the relationship....

    you can't gage what a deep relationship is. trust is a key factor in confidence & stability in a relationship, so typically that would be included in a deep relationship.

  • 1 decade ago

    After a third date I say its getting serious. If he wants to spend time with you after the third date then he likes you. And if you spending that much time with a guy then both of your should be comfortable with each other.

  • 1 decade ago

    well every one is different well for you to have confidence in a guy you need to know all about him and his family and friends and his back ground his x- girl friends has he every cheated on them why did he break up with them or why did they break up with him?you need to know if you never got together with him who would he chose his friends or you to hang out with and you have to have your own space to ounce in a while and so does he you have to consider this to and find out how he feel about this.and just take one step at a time before jumping in to a relationship so you wont get hurt

  • 1 decade ago

    it takes me 4 or more dates to build confidence in a guy.

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