Ladies, Is she just not interested anymore?

I've been dating a single mom for several months and it has been great with her. Then all of a sudden after we slept together for the first time she is just straight ignoring me. I've called her twice separated 4 days apart and she hasn't called back. I know she has two kids to look after but it was not like that before. What did I do wrong? Will she eventually call me?

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    Well, the 'several months' that you have been dating her takes this out of the realms of just a casual date - I would think there must be more to it than meets the eye and if i were you I would follow up a little on it. Even if the sex was bad or something, it wouild be highly unlikely that she would just dump you cold like that.

  • 1 decade ago

    It is strange that she is ignoring you, but sometimes when this happens, you just never find out why. If she has not returned two of your phone calls, she will probably not call you. If a week or two has passed since you called her, I would say she definitely will not call you. If you do call her again, make sure you leave her a message that keeps it open, such as, "I just wanted to let you know that I would love to see you again. I understand that you are busy, but feel free to call me any time in the future if you would like to get together."

  • 1 decade ago

    I don't think there can be anything worse then being ignored. It seems like you formed an attahment and she didn't. You didn't put your ages but if she works, is a mom, and does the fathers part of the raising of her kids she may just feel scared and a little overwhelmed. I know how this feels. Cause you want to know..but maybe sometimes...it is better not knowing.

  • 1 decade ago

    I have girl friend who has a kid... Yes she is a single mom.... My advice is if your a single guy without any kid, pick a single gal who could much more gel with you. Are you ready to be a dad all of a sudden because your girlfiend has 2 kids? and trust me, once you get things really heated up, things won't be the same. I've seen it happened to my friend.

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  • 1 decade ago

    no i dont thgink so. sorry to say but u could just be a piece of a$$ to her since she has 2 kids and is single. she probably doesnt have time for it and doesnt want a relationship bcuz of her kids but still wants sex. it was wrong of her to do that to you. u should move on.

  • 1 decade ago

    Ouch....I remember doing that same exact thing when I was in my 20's. I didn't call him back because I was displeased with his (lack of sexual) experience.

    Regardless of why she hasn't called you back the bottom line is she is no longer interested in you.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    it sounds like if she keeps ignoring you things arnt good sorry for bad news but from a womens view move on im sure someone alse would be lucky to have you as a boyfriend

  • I think you might have to let this one go if she doesn't call within 2 weeks.... I think she just might have wanted a piece of tail and that was the end of it.

  • 1 decade ago

    it sounds something has gone wrong, but don't panic call her later and see how things go, if she keeps on avoiding you then forget about her and move on. you can ask her in her voice mail or email her or text her what goes wrong, at least you know what's happening.

  • 1 decade ago

    no she wont call, and you should stop calling her. girls dont ignore phonecalls if they have even a hint of intrest. save yourself the embarassment and move on

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