Can my friend ever find true love?
Many men come at her & try to get fresh with her, but they only use her for sex & then drop her. She's looking for a stable relationship, & she's worried about STD's.
- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
yes, she can find true love. But she has to be a LOT more guarded about who she sleeps with. If she falls for every jerk that comes on to her, than she's going to look like the town whore and good guys won't want to get near her.
Honestly, she needs to learn the word "NO" and use it. often. If men only use her for sex, then she needs to stop hopping into bed with men so quickly. Ones that care about her as a person will WAIT to have sex. Those that want to use her, will do whatever they can to coerce her into sex, or bail when she says no. It's a magical word - it makes the dirtbags go away, usually.
She needs to get some self respect, some standards in the men she dates and she needs to buy her OWN CONDOMS.
- shy&gentalLv 41 decade ago
Very simple. She needs to stay clear of the men that are 'fresh' with her. She has been confronted with enough of them that by now she knows what to look for. As far as the Std's go....... she just needs to date a guy for about 6 months before she gives in, and then if she and he decide to take the next step, go down and get tested for everything. Yes, your friend can find true love, she is just trying too hard and compromising herself while she is at it. There is no since in all of that.......... when she could be taken her time and not allowing these men to use her for something she WON'T give up to them.. Blessed be.
- 1 decade ago
first of all,ur friend shld not have to worry about STDs if she's bn having protected sex.c'mon,i mean in this time and age,she shld know beta.secondly,if she looks for a relationship she might not find or she'll probably end up with the wrong guys again.there's a saying that if u dont expect,u dont get disapointed.let her relax,i know its not easy but u never know,wat shes lookin for might just b rlly close.tell her to listen to kelly rowland's 'love lives in strange places.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
I believe finding the right guy (or girl or whatever tickles your fancy) starts from within. Your friend needs to find herself and that internal goodness will be reflected in the type of men she chooses to be with. She must love herself to find love out there. Good luck to her.
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- 1 decade ago
Patience is the key! I'm in the same boat. I have been single 4years. I have kind of given up though. Not really I just stopped looking.
- jh361Lv 51 decade ago
tell her to use better judgement on picking these guys. It's not hard to tell which ones are just out for sex. A nice guy is usually easy to spot.
- JennyLv 41 decade ago
Tell her to wait on the physical part. If they don't stick around then they arn't worth it.
- DirektorLv 51 decade ago
Anyone can,with patience