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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsFriends · 1 decade ago

wHAT DO U DO WHEN 1 OV UR FRENDS IZ CUTING THEMSELVES?????

its a long story

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  • 1 decade ago
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    THAT PERSON NEEDS ALOT OF HELP...WHAT YOU CAN DO IS TELL SOMEONE WHO CARES FOR THIS PERSON..........THE MIND CAN BE HELPED BUT THE SCARS CAN'T.........

  • 1 decade ago

    Your friend needs help. Self harm is a cry for help. You need to speak to somebody about it. Only you can decide who is best. Your friend's parents would probably be first on the list but perhaps they are not sympathetic or maybe they are part of the problem. This is a judgement call for you. Other than that your own parents may be able to advice, a teacher or school counsellor. Your friend may be angry with you at first but ultimately they will realise that you have acted in their best interest.

  • 1 decade ago

    You call a hotline and ask for help or if the person is under 18 you need to intervene and talk to their parents and let them know what is going on. But that friend needs help even if she ends up mad at you it will be worth it to have her/him alive in the end

  • 1 decade ago

    Decide what's most important - being a friend, or getting your friend help. Tell their parents and tell a teacher or adult at school that you KNOW cares about the students.

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  • 1 decade ago

    U have a confrontation. Get all the peolple that care about her most and just sit down with her and discuss this issue with her. Its the only way.

  • 1 decade ago

    sit them down and figure what why they are cutting...it can be for many reasons.....once you know the source tell them they can talk about and there is better ways to deal with problems than cutting...if that's is to hard for you consider involving a parent..or someone that can help..

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    The best thing to do is be there her for her, Talk to her but do it with caution because its more than likely that she will be over protective abut it if its not for show. If she cant simply stop then the best thing to do is to talk to someone wha can do something for her.

  • 1 decade ago

    Ive heard about this and your friend is in real danger you must tell his or her parents or someone in school that cares like guidance counselor's, but you must let someone know that this is going on she might kill her self one day lol

  • 1 decade ago

    Tell a guidance counselor. They are trained to help in exactly this type of situation. Don't tell her parents. They may not react well.

  • 1 decade ago

    Talk to an adult that you trust. They should be able to help your friend or at least guide you in the right direction.

  • I went through this with an ex.

    Tell the family of the person and let them know they need to seek help for this person.

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