for the answer to this one we need not look no farther than our own back yard!
where to start! There are many different reasons for this to have happened, but none to blame the the parents of today !
not the kids ! they dont know any better!
we as adults do! but we are so caught up in a life of hurry hurry hurry because of the of what we are forced to do at work.
those of us that are lucky to still have jobs !
we that are in charge have taken all that there is to do away from our kids today in the name of safty! etc..
they dont have much they can do today except eat go to school (joke) and stay at home playing on their computer games or game consoles!
there isnt a mother or father at home for guidence or their isnt a father at all!
mom and dad are busy at work and the from the time the child is born it is in some kind of day care! as the child grows up it moves to the school for child care and teaching! (while mom and dad are working) . when the child is now in high school , there isnt anyone at home til late and then mom and dad are too tired to even pay attension to their children! the parents have no idea what their children are doing! to keep the child out of trouble the parents give them anything they want. the old outa site outa my hair routine!
we cant blame the age we live in for their problems either (meaning computer the internet and games etc.) If you happens to remember that far back , what happened to us as children?
the game room i used to go to was put off limits , the pool hall had the same thing done to me ....running the streets with my friends was also a no no ! so i turned to my C.B. and that after a short time was taken away also! does this ring any bells? this is what has happened to our children today ! unless you happens to in the wealthy class (i'm not) then our children suffer even more ! all i could afford was a game console and a computer ! and my 2 children were left with virtually nothing to do!
then there is todays single mom !
today our courts have made it so simple for a single mom ...and soooo terrible on a father! in the courts the father is most always in the wrong and in most cases the mother can do no wrong!
but what happens when the mother to be decided to get pregnant and then tell the expecting father to take a hike! happens every day! lets take a closer look at this problem .
you have 2 different cases to look at
1 the lazy mom ....
and 2 the mom that wants the best of both worlds..
lazy mom doesnt care what her kids do as long as the now removed father pays her way! yeah not the childrens way but hers! and if he dont . he goes to jail and now lazy mom has to go on the welfare system ...or hmmm get a job? NOT!
now you have the mom that wants the best of both worlds..
the top paying job and the father that pays too! but the problem is ...who is watching the kids? day care ..? the school system?
in both cases if you give the child what they want , they are quiet!
and last but not least ..this is the part that hurts everyone...you have the child protective services that will make it very hard on
you if you (JAIL time) if you punish your BRAT!
so when you add all this up , what have you got ? well just look outside and you will see ..yup he/she lives at home with the BMW that he/she cant afford that mom/dad got for them, and the kids have no idea what responsibility is nor how to manage money either , cause they dont work either !
so who is to blame ..you got it
you , me and everyone else that is close to retirement that created this situation in the first place!
i have a question .....when will it stop?