I think I made a big mistake by going naked at a co ed party. Do you think I will live it down?

am a high school junior and went to a party last saturday night where there was 5 cheerleaders and like 3 football players there. I thought really it was going to be just kinda hanging out, having pizza, and some drinks but we ended up playing an adult board game and the guys all had to get naked. We all took off our clothes at the same time and once the underwear came off, these guys were like 5 inches and I was standing there with an inch in front of Courtney, Tiffany, Paige, Elizabeth, and Kayli. I was so embarrassed. Of course the card said we had to remain nude for 10 minutes. We then had to sit on the couch. The girls came out of their room in their cheerleader outfits, and they paraded in front of us. Some bent over and showed their panties, but again when we all got erect, I was just 3.5 inches while they were like twice as big. I also leaked fluid. Am I just a total loser with no self control. Should I have just left the party once the naked game started? Will I live it down

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  • 1 decade ago
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  • 1 decade ago

    Should have left prior to whipping it out buddy. You might not live it down - kids can be mean and torturous.... You could always try starting a rumor... have some girl you know tell people "X might have a small dick, but MAN can he use it!!" That'll shut them up....

    The important thing to know is that the size of your manhood doesnt make the man. So what if you have a small penis - do you have a big heart? Large intellect? those are the things that make you attractive.

    At your age, it is normal that you "leaked fluid." Dont worry about it. I can tell you that masturbation will allow you to learn how to control the urge to climax and will make you a better lover in the long run - so go for it and practice! Just know that there is a differnece between healthy masturbation and allowing it to take control of your life.....

    If I can help in any other way, just email me man....

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  • 4 years ago

    Grudgingly accepting existence as an inconvenience, and treating it as such, fairly than embracing it as a present. i'm no longer an "optimist," because i do not purely assume the finest... truly, I continuously objective my maximum, yet assume something somewhat worse than actuality. that isn't any longer that i'm continuously satisfied. that is that I settle for my melancholy as a actuality of existence, and that there is continuously the following day. And the subsequent day, and the subsequent day... and the actual undeniable actuality that I truly have always to stay isn't scary and looming anymore. that is perfect, and complete of probability. the actual undeniable actuality that those opportunities would no longer come genuine isn't a tragic idea to me; it signifies that i'll daydream about the destiny always. Oh, and death my beautiful pink hair black. Then bleaching my fugly black hair, turning it into an evermore fugly orange. My hair is so damaged and nasty =/

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  • 1 decade ago

    High school is just a temporary situation. You will not have to talk with these people once you leave school. I don't.

    The important thing is to remember that the most important sexual organ is your brain. Learn to use what you have well and wisely. It will make a difference in how you feel about things. One excellent book to get is titled, The Joy of Sex. I highly recommend it.

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  • 1 decade ago

    No you're not a loser. You reaction to the situation was normal. Not all men are created equal. Don't sweat it. But for gods sake keep your pants on at the next party!

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  • 1 decade ago

    Wow!!! You are a bit crazy, knowing that you were small you should have just left the party. You will never forget this...unfortunatly they wont eighter...BUT...you got to move on...think positive...maybe they really weren't looking sooo much...hopefully other didn't really notice the details.

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  • 1 decade ago

    unless the guys forget about it by something else happening... i would say no... ur never gonna be let off the hook on this one... but i would avise you to just laugh it off and come up with a witty comment or something to say back at them if they mention it to anyone and that would make people think you dont take things seriously and that you have a sense of humor about this.

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  • 1 decade ago

    well considering the event has already happened..you cant change the past....embarrasing..yes..but hey i say live it up and enjoy it cause you WON'T live it down...im 23 and still living down things i did in high schooll...

    just run with it, laugh at yourself and enjoy it..we all have moments like this..well maybe not like yours but crazy partying moments

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  • 1 decade ago

    That's just disgusting. You should have stripped the girls naked.

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  • Dude. Thats disgusting. Way to submit to peer pressure.

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