Kate asked in Family & RelationshipsWeddings · 1 decade ago

am i weird to have certain places in mind for where i want to be proposed to?

idk, i tell my friends that i have ideas of where to be proposed to and some look at me weird but others smile and inquire more. what do u think? please help

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  • 1 decade ago
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    I think this is your idea of romance and there is nothing wrong with it at all! Just make sure you tell your future husband so he doesn't get it wrong :-) Men tend to be better at doing what they are told than taking hints.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Ever since I was a little girl I have been having ideas in my head of how the ring would look and how I would get proposed believe me it is a girl thing. It just means that it is a big highlight in your life and it is something you are looking foward to. There is nothing wrong with having a set place in your mind. Who knows maybe one of your spots will be the spot you actually get proposed at.... but don't worry it happens to a lot of girls.

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  • slick
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    1 decade ago

    ,Kate I don't understand what you need help with ?

    Your a young lady Romantic that's all you want the biggest question in your life to mean some thing special , and to be memorable My wife would say you just want your proposal to be perfect , I cant see any problem with that, other than getting prince charming to be in the right place with the right question .

    SO NO KATE YOU ARE 100% female Romantic

    I hope you get your perfect day and many more ..... Slick

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  • 1 decade ago

    No, not at all...it's good to have images in your mind of how you want things to go. It means you have a mind of your own, and you know what you want.

    However...to expect it to happen the way you imagine it, is pretty much setting yourself up for failure. The man who eventually proposes to you will probably not have the same picture in his head...and if you share with him what's in your imagination, he's likely to try to find something that you never thought of, anyway, in an effort to surprise you.

    Keep dreaming...it's the only way to push yourself forward in life.

    But keep an open mind to new and different ideas.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I think that you are a romantic and sentimental person. Besides wherever you are proposed to can be a significant place for you to go with your children or husband in the future. I think it is important to be somewhere special on that once in a lifetime day!

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  • 1 decade ago

    You're not weird, you are a romantic. I have those same thoughts too. For example, at a dinner, on the beach, in a park. I'll bet you have some really great places in mind too!

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  • 1 decade ago

    Noooo, thats definitely not weird at all. Many girls like to fantasize about their where they'll be proposed to. I know i have for sure, its just part of our tendencies since we tend to be more romantic than guys. Of course some women dont fantasize about it but thats just because of individuality. Different strokes for different folks as they say.

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  • 1 decade ago

    No it is not weird. Every girl dreams of the way that they will be purposed to and trust me it doesn't always happen that way. I always dreamed he would take me to a romantic dinner, and then a moonlit walk on the beach and he would have a blanket and candles waiting and he would purpose that way. I got him putting the ring on my finger while I slept and then saying I guess you want to marry me now. Sometimes you have to keep them just that.....DREAMS.

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  • 1 decade ago

    it's not weird. i my self think of secnarios of the perfect way for me to propose to a woman. maybe we could share ideas.

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  • 1 decade ago

    not at all. it should be a memorable event. i proposed to my wife at the top of the World Trade Center before Sept 11th.

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