is being gay such a big deal???

and why explain 2 me why its such a big deal

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  • 1 decade ago
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    No, but some people aren't comfortable enough with their own sexuality to deal with it.

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  • 1 decade ago

    It is and it isn't. Thats the nature of life, its paradoxical. For me, it is not. But other people think it is so bad. But the times are changing. This world is so messed up to me I just would rather let people be who they want to be and for people to be happy with themselves.

    Some people make a big deal out of it because they don't understand. But the problem with them is they don't use the greatest gift to mankind - their mind. They don't have to understand, but they don't realize that. They can retain their opinion, but there is no need to make a decision like being gay any harder for someone then it is. But I think they do so because its different, different from what was conceived common view of sexual relationships. But I don't know. All I know is that it is not place to judge on whether its right or wrong, so I won't make a big deal out of that, and rock on to someone that finds love whether its heterosexual or homosexual.

    Source(s): My head
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  • Jess
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    1 decade ago

    Should it be a big deal? Should it really be anybody else's business what gender a person is attracted to? How can loving somebody be wrong and who is to judge it? And if it was not natural, why do all sorts of animal species aside from humans exhibit homosexual behavior?

    I will never, ever understand homophobia. Hatred is an ugly, evil thing. And that is where the problem lies, with hatred and ignorance, not in sexual orientation.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Being gay is not a big deal even if you ARE christian or whatever religion you choose. Some people who are not gay just don't get it and are very afraid for some odd reason. People who are gay do not choose to be gay. Some rather extreme religious folk like to interpret the bible however they want to explain their fears and misunderstandings. People should be able to live and worship as they want.

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  • 1 decade ago

    It's a big deal, in one respect, because it is a core personality trait. The religious crap notwithstanding, it is how you are built.

    For narrowminded bigoted people, it seems to be a huge issue.

    For the life of me, I can't see how one persons sexual preference affects someone else. In the off chance you might have a interest in someone non-gay, then they have the chance to say, "I'm not interested"

    Interesting, tho, the religious people that think it's dirty, bad, and wrong, and then are found to be doing the same thing. That has to be "against God" by being a hypocrite.

    God loves gay people. His Son was gay. Look at the facts.

    Had 12 best guy friends, One woman threw herself at him, and he wasn't interested in her sexually. Loved his Mother, and threw dinner parties!!!!

    Love is the real issue. I don't care who you love, I care that you DO love.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    i am a christian and idc if somebody is gay or not!!

    it may go against my religion, but i dont think it's a big deal, now if you would have asked me that a yr. ago i would have said "omg thats SICK" but i've thought about it. and you know what? God wanted you to be gay!!!it was His wish.. so forget ppl who dont like u bc u are gay!!

    im not all for it, but im NOT AGAINST it at all!!!!

    it's YOUR life, so you can do w/e you want, you can be gay, bi, or straight.... God wanted you like that.. He won't give you more than you can handle so He knew you would be able to deal with the people who dont like you, so ya know what??? it's NOT a big deal, it's like somebody sayin to me, OMG YOUR STRAIGHT!! see what im sayin??

    so yea♥

    Source(s): much love♥
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  • 1 decade ago

    not to me but i know other people that think it is a big deal and that really bothers me....i hate it when people are mean to gay people and call them mean names i am totally against it and i try my hardest to stick of for gay people.......

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  • 1 decade ago

    Not any more a big deal than being heterosexual.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    If your a christian then it is a big deal. But if your not a christian then its no problemo!

    Source(s): knowledge
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  • 1 decade ago

    GOD created Adam and Eve.

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