loser asked in HealthMental Health · 1 decade ago

I suck.... and I'm a losser?

how can despair be combated, and where can I find motivation

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  • 1 decade ago
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    I think we all feel this way at one time or another...my famous description of myself is the b.o.n....blob of nothing lol...it is horrible to feel so low...but then,...I feel so guilty when I look around and see people so so much worse off than I am, and I wanna hit myself in the head and knock some good sense into it...I bet you have wonderful qualities, and sometimes, when it just don't seem to ever go your way..we have to step back and remember just what God gave us...and thank Him for giving us His Son,...as a sacrifice so that we CAN go on and live...Please..start remembering those things about yourself that shine and how you can help others...and somewhere along the line, you will start to feel better..and say your prayers darling,..they will be heard...He always hears us...God Bless

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  • 1 decade ago

    You are NOT a loser, or you wouldn't be asking this question. You are a "Winner" - for asking! Need some motivation, well you came to the right person... look into the YMCA - there are "motivators" in that organization. Go talk to them, join, enjoy the friendships you will make, exciting new people. Interact with them. Volunteer at a Senior Citizen's organization/nursing home and believe me, you will love you life, when you see the suffering of others, the loneliness of ageing and the disabilities they live with. You will be Motivated to capture all that Life has to Offer. Now GO and take a Good Look at yourself, your wonderful, you have been made in God's image! Isn't that Great... go conquer the world - I have faith in you... Merry Christmas...

    Source(s): Paramedic - but most of all a Mother...
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  • 1 decade ago

    Well, first stop calling yourself a "looser" and that you "suck"!

    Think positively. Do things that will boost you and one good way to do that is to help others. You will bother benifit.

    Find a volunteer opportunity; help out at a soup kitchen, etc.

    Do what you do with care, integrity and efficiency. Teach yourself new things. Read,. that is a wonderful way to learn new things.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Army oh lol nvm good luck man

    Source(s): Canadian Military
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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    your NOT a loser! please talk to a phyciatrist or a therapist... your self esteem is very low. not good =[

    tell ya what, i WILL pray for you!!!!

    maybe God will heal you, if he wishes too.

    but i will most definatly pray for you!!!

    Source(s): much love
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