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Anonymous asked in Pregnancy & ParentingGrade-Schooler · 1 decade ago

Middle School Problem?

Why are kids in Middle school always mean and they dont even know you and say stuff about u like thiis one girl called me weird just beacuse im quiet in class and dont like answering the teachers questions . It really gets me pissed off when girls are like this like this giirl is wicked fat and shes popular but alot of girls hate her ! now i see why alot of kids in middle school commit suicide!

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  • 1 decade ago
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    calm down i bet they will start changing when the enter highschool just thell them they need to get a life 4realz

    p.s. i never answer teachers quetions either you sound really familiar to me

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  • 1 decade ago

    Please don't say the word suicide! Shame on those types of girls, they are not worth your time of day. This is the exact same complaint my daughter would always come home with and tell me about "those girls". I would ask my daughter what those girls looked like. As in were they fat? She always said "yes". That is their problem and they don't even know it yet until one 10 -15 yrs down the road they will be diabetic.

    Kids don't eat right at all! There is too much sugar in their diet with the soda. Soda will put the pounds on you because the sweetener soda companies use is High Fructose Corn Syrup.

    Anyway don't pay any attention to those girls. You are probably pretty and they aren't. Just mind your own business and if they start something go to a teacher you can trust.

    Geez, what is wrong with kids today? I never had any problems in school, infact I liked going to school to see my friends.

    This is so sad.

    Is a parent home when you get home from school to talk ? Vent, let it out, even to a pet or neighbor.

    Another way is to write down how you feel/how they make you feel ,it really works, then throw it away.

    Good luck. Remember tomorrow is another day and things will get better, you will not be in middle school but one year. Believe me the years will start to fly by as you age.

    Source(s): Loving mother
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  • 1 decade ago

    Hey, calm down, middle school children are going through body changes and raging harmones. U need to give any kid that acts mean positive strokes like when the kid called u weird, just speak up and say...it takes one to know one, i think u are great.

    Put something positive in the mean kids head and they will get on another track fast.

    Dont get upset or mad or let some mean kid get all your power.

    U turn the other cheek and be nice and u will get better results.

    U going through a rough age between being a kid and a teenager.

    Think positive and keep a bible verse in your brain to ward off evil kids.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Middle school is such a tiny part of life in the grand scheme of things, it really is. I know it does not seem like it, but it passes, and highschool might be worse, but after it is all done, you are in the real world, where you will never see most of these people ever again. They are all kids like you with feelings and emotions. You are just getting a glimpse of what you will be exposed to for the rest of your life. Everyone deals with things differently. SOme people resort to being wicked, and some people deal with others with kindness. Decide who you want to be and screw everyone else. Suicide is a pathetic escape from something that cannot determine who you are, it just helps you see who you don't want to be. Good luck.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I am in 7 grade and it is same at my school and i hate it also! I dont know why everyone is so mean i dont act that way and i know not everyone do but it really make school unhappy sometime. Bless U and good luck OK?

    I know how you do feel i am quiet in class and i been picked on for it too and i am korean girl so i dont look or act always like everyone else do that can be hard to. Everyone say it get better when you older so at least it not like this always.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Word. Middle school is hard. I hated it too. Just keep thinking about the good things to come in high school. It's so much bigger, there are going to be a lot more people there just like you. Other people who are quiet and "weird."

    You may want to consider extracurricular activities where there might be some more interesting people to hang out with.

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  • 1 decade ago

    I dont know why kids are so mean, but they are. All you can do is ignore them and stick with your real friends. Getting mad and trying to get back at them by saying something just makes things worse, they will just say more mean things.

    The only bright side-eventually they will move onto picking apart someone else.

    Be successful in school and whatever you do, get a good education and job and then show off your fabulous great life at your 10 year reunion!!

    Hang in there!

    Source(s): lived it 19 years ago
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  • 1 decade ago

    ok dont get stressed out! this happens to every1. i am a middle schooler 2 and it seems im getting made fun of all the time 4 no reason. just remember((and im sure that u hav heard this ALOT))that this girl and many others r jealous.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Middle schoolers are immature.

    They're so immature they don't even realize they're being mean or judgemental or whatever.

    And middle schoolers don't commit suicide hun,

    I don't know where you live but..

    Anyway, Just tell them to shut up. Or ignore them.

    Just don't stoop to there level and start acting just like them.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Kids are mean to other kids because of insecurity. Putting others down makes them feel better about themselves. It's sad, but it's true. All you can do is ignore it, and remember it is only because they are feeling negative about themselves. Be strong! And your comment about that girl being "wicked fat" sort of fits in this category too, don't you think? =)

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  • 1 decade ago

    Middle skool suxx *** I am glad to be in hs but a few tips to get threw it....find yer real friends and dont listen to rumors and dont start them either....That girl probably is jealous cuz yer prettier then her or that maybe the guy she likes is crushing on you just ignore what she says that will really annoy her

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