Cancer attracted to Gemini?

I'm a cancer, and while I'm not well suited for gemini men I am HIGHLY attracted to them, and my current boyfriend is a gemini...we have OBVIOUS problems...could I be addicted to getting hurt?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    "Cancer + Gemini

    Water + Air = Rain

    Being a Cancer, ruled by the Moon, you are sensitive and emotional. You feel rather than think. Gemini is more intellectual and thoughtful, living in the head rather than the heart. This difference between you will have to be bridged if you are to build a deep and meaningful relationship.

    Maybe it’s simply a matter of both of you accepting that the other is vastly different, and each of you handling the aspects of life suited to your personality. That way, the relationship stands a chance of lasting.

    This difference was clear in the relationship between actors Tom Cruise and Nicole Kidman. Nicole is an intellectual girl. Analysis would be her forte. Tom relates to people in a far more sensitive and emotional way.

    Geminis find it difficult to get their emotions involved, even in love and sex. You want to connect with Gemini’s heart, but this could be too hard — their brain dominates them in everything. From Gemini’s point of view, if you fail to connect with them intellectually, they will lose interest.

    They have a hard time learning about non-verbal means of communicating. You may be the star sign that can teach them this new level of understanding. So while you are not a perfect match, you can learn much from each other.

    You will appeal to Geminis who want to communicate their deepest feelings. If you can, stay away from the bedroom until you have a good social and cultural connection with them. If you use this connection as a foundation, rather than sex, you have a better chance of surviving deeper romantic involvement.

    Tread warily in the money minefield with any Gemini you’re romantically linked to.

    Be particularly careful in this area with Geminis born between 22 May and 1 June — your views on money will be poles apart. It may seem odd to talk about money, about your financial philosophy, with someone at the start of a relationship, but you both need to understand where the other stands. If you avoid the issue you could run into problems that will undermine your relationship.

    Those born between 2 June and 12 June will be better suited as friends than lovers. This is because Venus strongly rules your friendship sector. You are likely to feel an immediate attraction to them — they radiate strength and sensuality.

    Take care with Geminis born between 13 June and 21 June. You are strongly attracted to these people sexually, but you need a strong emotional and material base to make this work long term. Gemini is, after all, a rather flighty star sign, and you need a security and stability.

    The excitement a Gemini brings to your life is undeniable, but remember, no honeymoon lasts forever. Compromise is the key word if the two of you are going to make this combination work."

  • 1 decade ago

    Cancer With Gemini: compatibility = 1 /10

    The homebody, introverted cancer may find club loving, outgoing Gemini way too hard to get for a good mate. While Gemini is constantly on the alert for changes and something new, Cancer is satisfied to become a truly domesticated mate, and ruts don't scare them. On the other hand, the cancerean moodiness may become too much for Gemini to cope with. There would be better compatibility where the female is a Gemini and the male is a Cancer, especially if there are several children to keep the Gemini mother's time occupied. Cancers are driven by emotion and feelings and generally prefer the constant. Gemini's unstoppable movement will prove unsettling to Cancer.

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    Cancer attracted to Gemini?

    I'm a cancer, and while I'm not well suited for gemini men I am HIGHLY attracted to them, and my current boyfriend is a gemini...we have OBVIOUS problems...could I be addicted to getting hurt?

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  • 1 decade ago

    Cancerian's should try and look for a life partner with a Scorpio or Pisces. These are the same water sign as the Cancer and are very well suited. I am a Cancer and I am married to a Scorpio, couldn't find a better match. Perfect.... Gemini, is split in personality can often change... Stay clear from them

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  • 1 decade ago

    i would be normal for a cancer to be attracted to a gemini. if you had a total horoscope done you would see that many of a cancer's personnal planets and many of a gemini's are in each others sign since the one sign comes after the other in months. obvious problems could be that he is just a jerk...even at their best geminis are not very senitive to other peoples needs. though they would deny that.

  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    well, im a gemini girl with a venus in cancer && id like to say the type of guy who attracts me is the one who makes the first move, an aloof personality actually makes me feel uncomfortable, it feels almost as if the person isnt interested, even like a rejection.. so yea basically caring, understanding type should have this guy interested. oh yea and at first, if he seems like he doesnt take interest right away, its just because he's taking everything in and waiting until he feels secure enough to make a move ;]

  • 1 decade ago

    well, i know that cancers are emotional, right? and geminis are two-faced. could be that half of him suits your emotional needs and the other half causes friction. maybe it's his emotional side that you're attracted to. i don't get along well with geminis and i try to avoid them. my mom is a gemini. (i'm a taurus) you can imagine how that was.

  • 1 decade ago

    cancerians are simply good in bearing heartaches- the predicament is, you're too good at it & you dont mind keeping it that way. you always try to nurture things that seem bad in hope that love & affection can cure it. unfortunately, more often it's not the case.

    everytime i hear stories like yours i cant refrain from recalling Princess Diana. a good example of a true cancerian. She tried to stay in her emotionally draining relationship for a while, but eventually learned to channel her gift by caring for others, even to strangers.

    you're might not be princes Di, but you're worth the love you trully deserve. the zodiac sign is not as important as your LOVE OF YOURSELF . you have to decide now or sooner or later you might lose it as well

  • 1 decade ago

    You should find an astrologer that can explain this a bit better to you

  • im a cancer and ma girl is a gemini....we've fu'''d alot and things are great....dont no about u...gud luk

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