This keeps happening to me...but I like it! Is that wrong?

2 long stories short versions: My friend was out of state and I hung out with his wife cuz we're all friends...She went down on me and I never told my buddy. They ended up divorcing. My other friend had a threesome with his wife and another girl so after his wife said since he got 2 chicks she gets 2 dudes and the dude she wanted was me...now they are split up too! Both call me all the time...

I never once made a move on any of them but when they make a move on me it's so hard not to go through with it...I feel horrible...

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Do you get the feeling that you're being a homewrecker? lol just kidding..I think that if you didn't initiate any of it, then you're technically not in the wrong, even though you could've had more restraint than you showed. I don't think that you should feel horrible because their marriages broke up, unless you were the cause. It's possible that you gave off some kind of vibe to them that you wanted them, even if you didn't specifically say anthing of that sort. If they wanted you, wanted to do those things with you, then they weren't faithful to their husbands and deserved to be divorced. Feel free to do anything with them now, since they're both divorced--maybe you guys can have a 3some! :)

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Stay clear of all the drama. The woman that cheated with you did so for a good reason: her marriage was on the rocks.

    The couple that had the threesome issue... same thing. Their break-up had nothing to do with the threesome. They were using that to try to "fix" or "spice up" their marriage. They were headed for divorce before they ever ventured into the swinging waters.

    My advice. Again, stay clear. They are total drama and you'll just end up being a big part of it and a scape goat for everyone to blame for the crap they created.

  • 1 decade ago

    As long as you keep up this behavior you will never be a good friend to anyone. You will be one of those who can't be trusted. You need to be real to yourself and stop acting like a hoe. I hope throughout these escapades that you were strapped up. Don't you want better for yourself? What if you had a son or daughter, would you allow this behavior for them? Life is much more than sex and one day you will learn this and I hope you don't learn it the hard way by catching something that has no cure.

  • 1 decade ago

    You should feel horrible. You are not a friend to these men at all! One day, this will happen to you and it will break your heart like something you have never experienced before. Don't act like you're all innocent because women aren't sitting around begging to have you! You did something along the way to encourage the behavior and you are just as much to blame as they are. Get over yourself!

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Technically Dave you should not mess around with any woman currently married or dating a friend.

    If she was married to a stranger...ok, but not a friend. You should have stopped it.

    If they are split up...do what you want and keep it quiet.

    Honestly though, the reality is most men wont pass up some free action from any decent looking woman. I don't really blame you even though it was wrong...

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    In my opinion you are weak for not being able to walk away from a situation in which you believe deep down is wrong. A man is more of a man when he to can say NO to sex when it could damage things. Notches on the bed post are for high schoolers my friend.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    well the fact of them divorcing isn't your fault. But you shouldn't be letting a married woman go down on you without her husband knowing and approving it. Other then that...do what you gotta do.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    yea thats weird man, you love the attention but friendships are at stake i would just stop with this wife and ex wife of friends dealie go find someone else.

  • 4 years ago

    it particularly is in all hazard for the reason which you have emotions on your chum. even though it particularly is solid which you instructed him no concerning the intercourse factor. i understand the way it is not common once you do no longer choose to lose the two :S yet, in case you particularly love your bf, merely tell your chum and that i'm specific he will understand. no person would desire their chum to lose somebody they love because of the fact of them. desire all of it works out!

  • 1 decade ago

    Naw man your good your mans should be mad at there ex's not you any way but if i where you why not have a three some with your boys two ex's

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