What do i do i think my boyfriend is cheating on me?

1of the first thing my boyfriend expressed to me when we met was that he thought cheating is wrong and he would never do that. but i was looking rfor him on myspace and i found someone with the same interests, apperence,and beliefs thats from the same city he is. but his title is i luv my baby amber(my name is SAMI). he goes on and says that he is madly in luv with her and there iz no one else for him. she gave him a comment using words like baby boy and luv yo wifey. and this is was recently.

i dont kno wat i should do should i go beat the ***** ambers *** or should i beat his ***. and wat if im wrong but he doesnt call me. and i tried to call him after i found all this but he wont pick up the phone. im 15 he is 16. im thinkng he doesnt kno who he is messin wit because i can a new boo like that(i got 2 that will do nething for me right now) so wat should i do? o yea this is my 1st bf and i thought he would be special.

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  • Saint
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    You people and basing relationships on myspace. Go out and get a real man. ()

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    You need to be honest with yourself. Those messages should be a clear indication that he is messing with girls online and if in the same city. You are still young and there is no since getting yourself all tied up about it. There are still plenty of guys for you better than your "bf." I know you want to be the crap out of him but restrain yourself and instead dump him because the signs are there. You should be having fun and not worrying about this guy cheating. Learn now that you are worth a lot and if this guy does not value you then just move on.

  • 1 decade ago

    I am soooo sorry that this is happening to you. Your first boyfriend shouldn't be one that you remember for cheating on you.You definitely should seek out revenge against him. He sounds like such an ***. Obviously he wasn't even trying to be sneaky about it- putting it up on myspace. Not being sneaky usually means he doesn't even feel the slightest bit of guilt for cheating. You should(at school or somewhere- not over the phone) confront him about what you found. If he is really a cheating *astard then don't associate with him anymore. People like that just suck and aren't worth wasting your time with him.

  • 1 decade ago

    You "THOUGHT he would be special?." Sweetheart, your subconscious is practically screaming at you that this wasn't meant to be. Having any doubt of whether he's cheating is just another sign. How many signs do you need? For god sakes, you're 15, leave this boy and experience the rest of the world a little more. Open your eyes honey, you'll be surprised to see how much better you can do.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    He's gotta learn to value you and if he doesn't then it's not worth it. You pick, think what would make you happy? Would you be better off without him? I was with my last bf 2 years, I'm 16, I thought I'd never be able to live without him, and in the end he just stopped valueing me enough, he still values me as a friend. I'm happy now by myself and I don't need him anymore to make me happy.

    If he's hurting you forget about him. If he makes you happy carry on but if he doesn't make you happy it's not worth it.

    Source(s): Experience
  • 1 decade ago

    Just because he's ur first boyfriend ur probably not his first girlfriend. Its about that time to depart from him cuz obviously he's cheating on u...u shoulda been went up inside his head with ur fist. Dont do anything to the girl cuz she probably in the same situation as u, she dont kno theres another. Confront him.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Girl, you have to know for a fact that he is cheating before you can bust him! Ask him about it! Tell him what you found and see what he has to say for himself. If he is cheating, I wouldn't bother beating anyone's *ss because it isn't worth it. He is just plain stupid for cheating and Amber probably doesn't know anything about you! It isn't her fault that is for sure. If he is cheating, find you a new boyfriend! Once a cheater, always a cheater!!!

  • 1 decade ago

    Your young! Please, don't feel bad, although I suppose its normal to be a little upset! Forget that loser, he was not true and hes a liar. Also seems thats hes not that smart, otherwise he would nto have posted his "actuak" info on MySpace. So that being said. IGNORE, all hsi calls and treat him liek he treated you. Like one one special. I bet hes ot cute enough for you anyway::) Let him go do Amber wrong!!!!!!

  • Feisty
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    You need to let him go, because its his fault that he wasn't being honest with you in the beginning! I don't understand why people who are in a relationship would cheat on their partner because they aren't getting their needs met within the relationship! You can't trust him anymore because you saw the red flag. Move on with your life and you deserve a lot better than that!

  • 1 decade ago

    I think you should leave Amber alone.....what in the world did she do?

    I think you've learned a lesson....some people don't tell the truth.

    A first boyfriend is always special but very rarely do we end up with them forever.

  • 1 decade ago

    you are not emotionally or mentally ready for a long term commitment.

    your boyfriend is testing the waters...he will not settle down with the first girl he dates...he has 10 more years before he gets serious..all he want to do now is have sex with anyone he can get to sit still.

    Do not get involved that way with boys right now...save yourself until you get married......the guys laugh about the easy girls and pass them around...the girl thinks she is popular but is only a dummy for them to use..wise up.

    Source(s): test your boyfriend...get a new name and contact him on the net...make yourself 16.....and borrow a new photo...talk to him to see if he cheats on you.
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