How to get rid of an annoying, underage crush? Any way to not hurt her feelings?

I'm 21 and she's 13. She's my cousin's girlfriend's little sister. I was hanging out over their house a couple weeks ago and we were all talking and watching TV together. I could tell that she had a little crush on me, but I thought nothing of it. But ever since then, this girl has been hounding me. She got my number out of my cousin's phone and has called me almost everday since then. She also lives just two blocks away and followed me home once. I'd talk to her about nothing for a few minutes just to be nice, but then she told me she wanted me to be her first boyfriend. I told her it was impossible because of the age difference and to stop calling me, but she kept calling and showed up at my house again when I wasn't there. Her older sister says she's a really sensitive and lonely girl, so I don't want to hurt her feelings. But I can't have this girl calling me and showing up at my house. What should I do?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Thats so cute.....but seriously make her understand that is you two were to be BF/GF then you could go to jail and then you two could never be together. i sure she doesn't want that now does she? Tell her that you'll call her on her 18th birthday but untill then keep her chin up and keep looking. You could say that she will be missing all the fun with her freinds because none of them will be able to hang around with her because of you. get her to see the down side of it. Or what you could do is pretend your her BF and do everything she doesn't like and then she won't want you...you'll be a free man! Call it returning the favor. Good luck!!

  • 1 decade ago

    Why don't you let her mother know whats happening, since her sister refuses to speak and help you. Politely speak with her mother and explain that her child has a crush on you and that her older daughter knows about it. Let her know that you are friends with her older sister but her older sister refuses to help you in this matter and all you would like is that this child's daughter stay away from you. You could also change your number, offer her young fellows her age to hang with (whom she may or may not like) get on her older sister to straighten her out, BRING YOUR GIRLFRIEND around and introduce her to this 13 year old, or maybe even use a little trickery in not being the older sisters friend for a while in an effort to keep her away. If you don't have a gf, you can borrow one of your female friends to pretend she is your girlfriend and introduce her to the 13 yr old. She should get the hint by then. Sky's the limit forr you in terms fo ideas. One thing is certain. If you don't take action it will continue.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Talk to one of your girl friends. Ask her to pretend she's your girlfriend, try to pretend you have a very nice relationship. She's probably going to be hurt no matter what cause she's only 13. But that's a good way of get rid of her without saying anything to her. Just get a "girlfriend" and pretend when she's around.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    do you have any cousins her age? or guys you know, why not introuce her to one of them and then have him say or come out with something and let him outsmart you see if that switches her interest towards him.

    just in case she doesnt want to give in with him for not making you feel bad, say something like... "i gotta accept it, you two make a good couple"

    you know, something like that.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Just ignore it. Because its just a stupid little crush.....

    Shes going to flirt with you, as long as you dont do anything back it wilwl all blow over.

  • 1 decade ago

    Tell her you have a girlfriend and that she could youre friend....

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