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OMG, I am married and slept with another woman. Tell my wife?

OK, please do not judge me too harshly. I was tired and was feeling vunerable. She is also married! I woke up and there she was, sleeping right there next to me. I am sure I will never see her again as we did not even talk to eachother. This is just so weird............

Let me start at the beginning......

I got on the plane. I was tired and I swear I did not even notice her sit next to me. I went to sleep and I guess she did too. I did not even get her name!

I have always been honest with my wife so I am going to tell her.

Wish me luck.


For the humor impaired.......

No, we did not have sex. We did not kiss. We did not even talk. Read the post. I got on a plane, a woman also got on the plane. I was tired and fell asleep in my seat on the Boeing 737. I woke up just before landing and noticed her sleeping in her seat next to me. Is this a sin? If so I am guilty but I can not say that this will not happen again. I travel from time to time and do get tired and the end of a trip.

Now how many of you really think I cheated on my wife now?

My god people, lighten up!

I have never cheated and dont plan on starting anytime soon...........

Update 2:

OK, some of you (about 50%) got it. The others I think read what they wanted to read. I think it speaks volumes about them don't you think? To answer one of the questions, no it would not bother me in the least bit if my wife did this........I guess I am just more open than some...............

23 Answers

  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    I think the answers to this question are a testament to how much people actually READ the question. At least half of the people don't get it that the guy fell asleep on a plane and a woman in the seat next to him did as well.

    I also did this once. I also saw one time a woman fall asleep on a plane and wake up in a daze an hour later and she "grabbed" the poor guy next to her, not realizing where she was (he was at least 40 years older) and they were both mortally embarrased.

  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    I know it is tough being in this situation but, she is your cousin screw that bastard he does not give a dam about her his marriage or his kids and he has no respect for you either he brought that girl into his home with no regard to the fact you were staying there with them. I could not look my cousin in the face ever again knowing what you know her husband has been doing behind her back. She does not deserve to be treated like that, he is disgusting he had this chick naked in the bed his wife just got out of. YOU NEED TO TELL HER NOW...

  • 1 decade ago

    Are you talking of sleeping only? On the plane? No where did you mention sex. If this is the case, I'm sure your wife will be understanding about it. Sounds very harmless to me.

  • 1 decade ago

    If you tell her be very prepared to get divorce papers, or prepared to make the long hard journey back to trust, and trust me, that journey will not be an easy one, she will test you, you will have no privacy, but if you are willing to go through either one of these then go for it.

    If you choose not to tell her, then choose not to ever stray again. And the tired, venerable excuse isn't going to fly with your wife, no excuse you could ever come up with will be good enough. Oh, and after you tell her, be sure to wish her a Merry Christmas, because this is going to ruin her holidays.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    you were sitting next to eachother on a plane and fell asleep??? what the heck!?! this doesnt make sense! if you didnt have sex with her and you 2 were on a plane in 2 seats just next to eachother then thats not sleeping with eachother in the same bed! sheesh

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Yes you should tell her. I am confused though, you fell asleep on an airplane and so did the women next to you. What is the problem? Or are you trying to say you slept with her somewhere else? Whatever the case tell your wife.

  • 1 decade ago

    from what you've said, did you fall asleep in the seat next to hers or did you go some place else to have sex?

    if you didn't talk, how do you know she was married? how did you ask her to have sex?

    if you just fell asleep next to her, no big deal. if you had sex with her, very BIG deal.

    tell your wife.

  • 1 decade ago

    Sleeping with her was bad, but in public?!!?! AND anonymous yet??! Next thing you'll be telling us is that you did it with your clothes on!

    God, where's the world headed, public sleeping on airplanes with married people, yikes. I think I'll just go kill myself, so I don't have to bear the horror of finding out more.

  • zax_fl
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    DON'T TELL HER !! ("slept with" means sex at your hotel right?) You regret what you did and you wish it never happened... right? So why inflict her with that? If you tell her things will never be the same between you two again. You will always be suspected and your guilt will always be the barrier to anything you two do together. She will feel guilty as well. So don't do it. Rededicate yourself to her and overcome what you did with yourself.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    LOL .. okay u slept on eth plane and tehwoman next tou happened to sleep too !!!! big deal!! were u dropped on ur head?

    tell you wife she would probably slap you silly!!!! how come ur married? i dont understand?

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