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I assume he cheated on me so we broke up, should i go back with him?

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  • ZCT
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago
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    It depends if your assumption was correct. If you were wrong, and he didn't cheat on you, and you feel you can be more trusting, get back with him. If he actually did cheat on you, move on. Once a cheater always a cheater.

  • 1 decade ago

    What do you mean 'you assume he cheated on you'? Either he did or he didn't. If you are 100% positive he didn't cheat on you and you over reacted then apologize and take him back.

    If he did cheat on you - stay away. Once a cheat always a cheat. Even if he promises not to do it again - he is lying.

    You should never assume anything. Get all the facts before making any type of decision.

    Good Luck and God Bless.

  • 1 decade ago

    Always remember this; when you "assume" You make an "***" out of u(you) and me!

    What if He didn't cheat?

    Are you going to live the rest of your life in doubt? Or will this become your "crutch" in your dating life, so that you never have to "risk" yourself or commit to your boyfriend, and even your Husband, later on down the road!

    It is better to have Loved, and Lost; than to never have Loved at all!

    Why not give Him the benefit of doubt, trust, and honesty, and at least talked to Him about it, before just "dropping-Him" and leaving Him to think that you were the Guilty-One, that did something wrong?

    Try to Stop this kind of reaction now; or you will do this same thing the rest of your life, and will never be Happy! Or worse, you will end up alone, and miserable...

    Yet, you girls will be the first one's to say; "Guys are Liars, Cheats, and Pigs, and I can't trust 'Em!" Yet, you will act and do the very same things that you despise! Go Figure???

    Good Luck!!!

  • 1 decade ago

    You didn't get the facts first? You just dumped him like that? Well, you know him better than we do if you felt he was cheating on you then you go with your 1st mind and if you are just assuming that he is cheating on you then you know what they say: DON'T ASSUME CAUSE WHEN YOU ASSUME THINGS THEN YOU MAKE AN *** OUT OF YOURSELF. If you loved him at all it would have been better to get the facts instead of the rumors.

  • 1 decade ago

    If he didn't cheat, and you just assumed and tan with it, then the question really is... should he let you come back. You have to have trust in a relationship or it will never grow to me anything

  • 1 decade ago

    It really depends on if you were right or not... if he didn't cheat on you, and he wants to go back with you, then why not?

    If he DID cheat on you... and you have evidence... then don't bother, because you deserve better. Even if he wants to get back with you... don't... he did it once, so there's a high possibility of him doing it again.

  • 1 decade ago

    I thought the answer to this question would be obvious.....NO!! Once a cheater always a cheater, and if you assumed and it wasn't true, you don't trust him very much. Either is a bad situation for a relationship, so do us all a favor and DON'T!

  • 1 decade ago

    You didnt mention why you assumed he was cheating but all i can say is that if your heart was telling you something was wrong, then it probably was. Always listen to yourself, your heart will never lie to you. If you honestly belive that he is faithful to you, then you should be with him but only if thats what you choose to do. Good Luck =)

  • 1 decade ago

    U assume? when assumption are not exact... but if u know that he cheated u should not get back with him, cause once we cheat, we'll do it again and again ... it's a genetic marker :))

  • 1 decade ago

    IMO -- Once a cheater always a cheater.

    But why do you assume he cheated?

    Do you trust him to tell you the truth? If you don't, then trust him, then why waste your time with him?

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