why do i hate sex..?

i use to love having sex a little too much,but now nothin. it's ruining my relationship fast

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  • 1 decade ago
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    See a doctor first to make sure there isn't anything wrong medically.

    If not, are there problems in your relationship where you aren't feeling very close to each other? Do you need to "spice things up" a little? Sometimes in a committed relationship we fall into patterns of the "same old stuff" that just get boring. Try something new!

    You do use the word "hate" in your post--which seems to imply that you have unresolved conflict. Work on it or move on if it isn't workable!

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  • 1 decade ago

    Darling there might be some long term issues here, you may want to seek professional help. Your childhood upbringing may have something to do with it, we sometimes block certain things as we are growing up, and it isn't until an event or someone triggers it years later. Find out what the problem is before It becomes a permanent thing in your life, and it ruins your relationship. Good luck

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  • 1 decade ago

    There are so many factors that influence a womans sex drive. Stress, depression, hormones, relationship problems. It's probably not a permenant thing. Just something that's going on in your life. If it's causing a lot of problems in your relationship I'd go see a doctor and see what they say, but stressin' about it is probably just gonna make the problem worse. Good Luck!

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  • I wish I could find a girlfriend like you!!!! Just the thought of not having sex anymore is exciting to me as sex takes too much effort for the man. Keep up the good work!!!!

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  • 1 decade ago

    it sounds like u just got hung-up on something that turns u off. u have to work through it and face it why does it bother u so much that u can't do something you so clearly love?

    Its hard but ts possible if all else fails u might have to change your partner.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    You screwed so much when you were younger now you don't feel like it. Would that be fair to a guy you might want to marry in the future? Start putting out NOW.

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  • 1 decade ago

    it may b the other person's style of having sex. do they put in an effort to turn u on, or is it roll on, roll off?

    maybe u 2 could watch a really HOT movie together.

    try roleplaying, or something u otherwise would'nt do.

    WHEN SEX IS DONE RIGHT, U CAN'T HATE IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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  • Rossco
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    Get something new and or exciting for the bedroom. Do it a new way. Sounds like your bored with it thats all

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  • 1 decade ago

    maybe your partner is not really trying --- its become boring --- you need to find what you like and make sure that happens --- more foreplay is always a good start and some romance

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  • 1 decade ago

    Simple, you already got tired of it. you must have had to much. It will come back if you will give yourself time to rebuild your sexual urges.

    Sometimes its psychological.

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