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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 1 decade ago

is it normal for my step dad to touch me. he wont let me use any phones or ever leave.?

he watches me and undress s me and i 16 but i grew up with that. it hurts and he hold me down. and when i get tears in my eyes he laughs and enjoys it wat can i do. i tried running away and leaving but he never stops watching me.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Hey, you should report this matter to the police or seek some helplines. This is very serious. He's into incest with you, althou you're not his own flesh & blood but he can't do such a thing on you. He watched and undressed you and also touched you, this is not a matter of simple issue. You MUST REPORT to the police now or leave the house or tell your schoolmates and teachers. Let them do something for you. You don't have to feel ashamed as well coz you're not willing to do it. Pls do something, you're making me worry too. Don't be afraid of him, let the police take him to jail. I know you must be worry your mum will be upset but I'm sure doesn't like such a thing to happen to you too. You know why he won't let you use the phone or leave the house? Because he's AFRAID you'll tell someone else. And leaving the house means he got nothing to play with. You must beware of him and report it to the police! See how many people are telling you to report it to the police and your school pals.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Okay I am going to answer this in a serios manner, but it seems a bit to fake I mean where is your mother when he does this? why not talk to her? Don't you go to school? tell someone at school. I mean it seems a bit weird that you say he watches you all the time but yet you are online asking questions about it. so if you are for real you know you can tell people at the school. I mean do you want us to believe that your mom will not do something do you not do things with your mom like shopping Think about it you have a way out I think that you are trying to get a reaction out of people here, But if it is real then tell someone

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Is your mother aware of this? He is nothing more than a sexual abuser and it will progress more and more as long as he is allowed to do this to you. Tell you mom first of all, even though a lot of mothers will not believe it, tell your counselor at school, go to the police or whatever you have to do. In my neighborhood you could just tell any guy here and we have our own way of meting out justice in these matters as we have in the past. If you have younger sisters, I would really be worried.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    My friend was systematically abused and raped/molested by her step-father from age 9 to 12 when I put a stop to it by calling the police on him. No one in her family believed her and they convinced her to shut up and deny it ever happened and she lived with them for years afterwards, and her mom still lives with him to this day. CALL THE POLICE now and don't change your story, and become emancipated, and start your life on your own, leaving all those betrayers behind forever.

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  • 1 decade ago

    please dont get mad at me when i say this but you need to go beyond the parents sometimes. if you tried to explain this to your mom she will probably ask him about it and it will probably get worst my sis and i use to get hit by our dad and telling our mom didnt really work cuz she was scared but you need to go to a teacher you trust in your heart or someone you can trust and see if they will let you take time in class to call police and report him or do everything you can try not to let it affect school but if i knew as much as i know now i would have tried my best to put my dad in jail just for me and my sisters safety but you need to fight as hard as you can cause no man should take advantage of a girl and make them feel lower than dirt and that they are always in the wrong cause we were not put here to feed them f*** them and have them use and abuse us .fight through this and talk to police whatever you have to do even during school just so you can be you again and i will pray for you

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  • fritch
    Lv 4
    4 years ago

    that's unhappy which you lied on your mom -- she chosen her convenience over your secure practices. additionally, you at the instant have a mark against you in case you each and every incredibly might desire to call the cops returned (each and every heard the tale "the boy who cried wolf"?). count type your advantages, i assume, with the aid of fact it a minimum of feels like he's not "there" even nonetheless your mom continues to be hooking up with him. stick to the plan next time (if there's a next time)... which capacity do no longer returned off from what you recognize is stable, no count number who's asking you to do it. stable success.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I hope this isn't someone trying to be funny.

    If this is a serious question, please go to the police. If you have to, get a teacher to call them for you. You have to tell an adult what is going on. You have done nothing wrong. Please get help. If you have a younger sister, think of her. She is next

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  • 1 decade ago

    try running to a police station!talk to someone you can trust, tell someone!where is your mother?have you spoken to her about this problem?talk to a school counselor,grandma,aunt,friends mom.THIS IS NOT NORMAL!please talk to someone.hopefully someone out there can help officially after reading this.

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  • mared
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    It is not normal for him to do things like that. Your step father needs help. He is sick.

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  • 1 decade ago

    go to the cops..yo should have enough common sense to know that it is not normal esp. for a step dad?!!!

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