Oh gosh. I'm 34 and I once said that to one of my classmates and she chewed me out royally. "We are not old," she said. I had a little issue turning 30 too, but I got over it pretty quick. What you need to do is look at the biggest female stars, the ones who are getting all the attention. Angelina Jolie for one, isn't she like 31? Now, I don't know about you, but I actually feel better about myself now than I did when I was 16. I have a better body all the way around, a little saggier, but I'm more of a woman now, not a teeniebobber. 30's are good. Trust me. You can still dress somewhat sexy too, just don't overdo it. Watch the show, "What not to wear." I have seen some really sexy outfits on some of these "older" women like us. LOL Enjoy it, before the sags and wrinkles really set in.