ex's birthday?

I went out with him last winter break. recently he has been coming to my work(he used 2 work there,grocery store). we talked about the past and how he felt 1 night I was too attached to him.He got the wrong impression of my feelings 4 him.I was hormonal(side effects from the bc patch I was on at the time) and plus I had just gotten out of a 9 month bad relationship. SO ya know a lot was going on at the time.10 months have passed.like I said we talked. anyways I wanted to call him on his bday which is next week,wish him a happy bday and see if sumtime soon we could get together to talk and maybe watch anime. Since he said he thought I was too "attached" to him, the fact that he told me his bday 1 time a year ago, will that make him think I'm way werid to remember that, or would he be sorta shocked that I remembered but feel good? basically is this a good or bad idea?

3 Answers

  • 1 decade ago
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    there's no harm in a phone call, or a card. if he reacts poorly, back off and leave it at that. if he's happy to hear from you, and glad that you called/wrote, then ask him to hang out sometime

  • 1 decade ago

    No go for it, i think he will be pleased to know that you care enough to remember his birthday, what could you lose?

  • 1 decade ago

    no i think that it is nice that you want to tell him happy birthday

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