This girl won't stop flirting with my boyfriend?

So ever since my boyfriend and i started going out this girl that i absolutely can't stand has been flirting with him non stop. What should i do about it? It is driving me nuts, and i want her to back off!

24 Answers

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    As long as he's not flirting back, don't worry about it. She may want him, but you HAVE him.

  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

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  • 1 decade ago

    Has he been showing any reactions to her flirting? Like does he not like the fact that she's flirting with him. If he does show those signs than don't let it bother you cause he's not interested in you.

    However, if he does show react to her flirting in a more than friendly way than tell him how you feel and ask him to stop. If he doesn't stop than break up with him.

    This girl sounds like she doesn't like the fact that you two are together and is jealous. She maybe doing it to break you two apart. Take to your boyfriend about this so that the girl does not come between you. If he doesn't like her flirting have him tell her to stop. She might just be in a surprise if she hears him say it. If she isn't fazed than your boyfriend and you should just ignore it.

    I hope all works out for you and your boyfriend. I also hope that girl backs off from your boyfriend it sounds like she's trying to ruin a life that shouldn't be ruined.

  • h2gj87
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    Let her know he is yours and yours only! Tell her to back off because you dont like that. Hey does your boyfriend flirt back? Because if he does you need to talk to him about that and also tell him to stop talking to her so you wont feel so uncomfortable anymore.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Just tell your boyfriend to don't flirt back or talk to that girl if he won't do it then dump him.

  • 1 decade ago

    If your bf really cares about you and loves only you and no one else (well family of course but i mean like romantic relationships) then what is there to worry about. I'm sure he'll tell this girl to get the hell away from him.

  • 1 decade ago

    That's exactly what she wants you to do, go nuts.well os your bf flirting back?of so you need to tell him off or something ne ways ***** slap her! she needs to back off your man!apparently she is jealous whenevr she's around just start being all over your bf and that'll make her squirm!gl!


  • 1 decade ago

    talk to your boyfriend.The sole part of being in a relationship is conversation so tell him exactly how u feel about it.But dont order him not to speak to her no matter what u do bcause that will just make it worse.i can allmost garentee that if you are subtle about it with him but make a point that u dont like her flirtin with him he will probably start to avoid her.

    Source(s): i had the same prob about 2 weeks ago.
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    avoid her like the plague dont go to the same places she does if your at school and shes in one area walk the other way if its at a resturant change your food places just avoid her she cant flirt with him if she cant see him.

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