I have never had a boyfriend and I feel like a complete loser.?

All of my friends have had at least one boyfriend and I am always stared at in the halls at school. The guys that I've had crushes on always stared at me but they never say they like me or ask me out. Plenty of guys have asked me out, but none of them were people who I wanted to go out with because they were popular freaks. WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    why would you need someone else to feel special ...do something out of the ordinary..practice and become good at something..people love the rare and unusual..stop trying to be something your not and be something your are...like nike says..just do it.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    There is nothing wrong with you. This is a hard time for everyone your age. Maybe a lot of guys are intimidated by you. Sometimes guys are afraid to admit they like you or to approach you, because they are as afraid of rejection as girls are. Remember, there is a lot of pressure being a guy, because they are expected to make the first move. I am sure you are a beautiful, sweet girl. Usually the guys who are staring at you and not asking you out, are probably the ones who are afraid of rejection. Another thing, maybe one of the guys who asks you out that you don't like you could get to know and be friends with, and you might like him too.

  • 1 decade ago

    Dont just go out with someone because you arnt now. I am 14 and that happends with a lot of my friends. They will change who they like every day and that is stupid. Wait till you like someone who likes you back. The people at school who stare at you are just like the people at my school who need to go out with someone to be cool. But their is nothing wrong with you. Just wait for the right guy.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Chill out there girl.....there is nothing wrong with you!

    I was like you back when I went to school too......got out of school, dated plenty of women and ended up married with two kids. You don't have to have a BF in school just to show your not a loser.

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  • 1 decade ago

    there is nothing wrong with you..

    so do I..

    i never had a boyfriend like you but I'm not feeling like a loser because love can wait..

    you should not feel that way because you will have a time that you will have a boyfriend

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Nothings wrong with you. talk to the guys you have a crush on. Show them you like them without actually saying it. And when you talk to them watch how they act. Watching their body-language might help you find out if they like you.

  • 1 decade ago

    Hey, there's nothing wrong with you! You're actually doing the right thing, wait for the right person to come around so you can give yourself wholly to him, and not have to regret about past relationships. You will never regret it, it will be very special. good luck to you!

  • 1 decade ago

    Honey, you aint the ONLY one! I havent had one either...and for some reason all the guys who have crushes on me...don't think i am very approachable! I am ALWAYS too serious and TOO mature! Anyways, try to be easy-going (if u can...cuz i cant!)

  • 1 decade ago

    i'm in the same situation only no one has asked me out and i'm like th complete package.ne ways my friends tell me that i'm lucky b/c dealing with a boy ur feelings can get hurt and all that other crap so don't worry about it. or you can make the first move and ask someone out.gl!!!!!!

    %peace%

  • mJc
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    There is absolutely nothing wrong with you. If you're in high school (which I'm guessing you are), just hold off until college anyway (you'll be glad you did)!

  • 1 decade ago

    Here is a little advice from someone who was in the same stature... You Ask Him Out!!! it may come in handy taking that leap of faith may help you out a little bit...

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