Anonymous
Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 1 decade ago

How long should you wait to date after a huge break up?

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  • Nep
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Until you are okay with being alone. This would ensure your feelings are completely gone.

  • bev
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    your in the best shape right now to fall in love for the healing of it,. you now know what you don't like it is in this light that you can enjoy what you are looking for and didn't last i never know a girl that after she had on her game face and was playing her game that i didn't want any part of it cause it always leads to bs and that where being hurt makes so much sense to be there and hurt and know what you do want after you get your head together and time goesby you can be playing something that isn't right and not know it again.(the same mistake twice) so where do you get to have a good time like this well each of us are the same in this aspect. one we are thinking, notice i didn't write when we are thinking in the last sentence that's because i meaqnt one , you could still be thinking like the two of you were and so i said one.so if you have something to do like go out you can stop thinking and break that constent resurfacing crap of "pushing your buttons" or remember he pushed your buttons,they go on auto pilot and you have to stop them(ssubconcous-mind game inside a game).that whyy we have the computer is thast the mind games is far more complex than we have a way to deal with it and the computer and more information can get us to alter how we miss certainh facts we are pushing our own buttons or we could still be under the influence of letting it happen and we know that someone else is in our minds doing it that were the wording being: "taken for granted" comes from they will push your buttons and you got to know the difference.so go drive to where your going to be you and have fun and stay on your toes with this knowledge that you are aware of your feeling and enjoy how you've grown. where are the buttons...hmm..aanxiety,defensive,depression.guilt, so when all this is not really there you are just getting what is called the wet blanket effect of it. you can see it's not there but u just keep moving and soon you have something restored to normal and it get better if you see less of what you what to forget the more you are stuck the longer the resentments stay and sooner or later they have conflect of your interest to the point that you are disinterested in your self and that is out of the question you are here for you so you can push your own buttons. activating your event in real time, indecisiveness is frustrating, condemned loniliness is frustrating, waqiting forever to challenge irrational beliefs is frustrating, relearning to exercise your love of what you like will help encouragements and take a friend too, pushing u up

  • 1 decade ago

    There is no right time for it to be okay to start dating someone. if you start dating in a month your consididerd a slut and if you wait to long people will just forget about you so what i say is about a month-n-hlf/ 2months......just so your ex doesnt think you are still stuck on him.

  • 1 decade ago

    According to Britney and K-Fed, about 2 minutes after you're done sending each other nasty text messages.

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  • 1 decade ago

    well I think a couple of weeks, 2 or 3, that gives you time to get over the guy and people in your school wont think your a slut!!!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Wait until you feel ready to start daiting again.

  • 1 decade ago

    Untill you are comfotable and think you can handle it!

  • 1 decade ago

    it depends if you still have feelings.

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