My son wont eat healthy foods?

he is 5 yrs old and will refuse to eat for days. his teacher says that he eats his enitre hot lunch every day but just last night, i told him if he wanted any of his candy from trick or treating he had to eat a spoonful of beans. i know once he tastes the foods he will like them. i also know it is my fault, what... show more he is 5 yrs old and will refuse to eat for days. his teacher says that he eats his enitre hot lunch every day but just last night, i told him if he wanted any of his candy from trick or treating he had to eat a spoonful of beans. i know once he tastes the foods he will like them.
i also know it is my fault, what i need to know now is how do i reverse this. he is skinny and even his baby sister weighs almos as much as him. his dr says he isnt unhealthy but i think he is.
is it really okay to only offer him what is made and nothing else if he will refuse to eat for days? right now he is living off of cheerios and elementy school hot lunch.
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