You're not on your own - but not many blokes have the balls to admit real women and good old fashioned closeness and affection do it for them as well if not better than a high maintenance glammed up centrefold. And sadly a lot of girls nowadays seem to have been brainwashed into believing being a pouting size six siren is what sex appeal is all about, and may well find a man who values more honest and homely affection a bit of a puzzle.
Which is a great pity - I can't remember how many agony column letters I've read from women bemoaning the fact their man just sems to want quick unemotional sex, and won't show them the affection and hugged up cuddles that they would find a turn on. Just having your man touch or stroke your hair (or arm, or back or whatever) and smile at you as he walks past now and then is a huge turn on for most of us. When my chap gets in from work I unfailingly get a proper hug, which usually leads to a bit of smoochy kissin', and a grope and a giggle, and now the kids have flown more often than not the jog suit in a pile on the floor by the bed;-) After 22 years together, I'd say I'm pretty lucky.
I hope you find the kind of partner who you deserve and who will appreciate she has a smashing and loving REAL man, who loves and is turned on by her for herself and not because she spends half her life and twice her income trying to look like some wannabe bimbo.