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is love really all that important?

more and more i find myself thinking that i'll never be loved ever again. i have a bad problem with loneliness and i hate being alone. all i ever think about is if i'm ever gonna find that special one who is perfect for me. am i crazy or just realistic.

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    No you are not crazy. I think that everyone needs love in their lives. But don't put your life on hold until you find that special one. There are no guarantees that that person is out there. So make yourself happy first!! Good Luck!!

  • 1 decade ago

    If you don't love yourself then I can tell you that no one else is going to love you either. There is nothing wrong with being single until that Mr. Right comes along. You just have to be patient and wait on the Lord. Love is the most important thing in this world. If no one loved one another there would be 24\7 hate among people. Just think if God had not so loved the world and had not given us His only begotton Son, Jesus. Where do you think we would be if God did not love us? I'm over 30 and I've never been married and I desire a husband tremendously however, I'm waiting on the Lord because HE doesn't want me with any old junk just to put a smile on my face. He loves me enough to give me that person who is not perfect but who is just right. The God I serve wants me to have unconditional love and happiness. You are lonely but you are never ALONE BECAUSE GOD IS ALWAYS WITH YOU. It may be hard right now because you are feeling the way that you are but pray and ask God to send you a man worth of your love not just your body. All you have to do is just believe and have FAITH GOD WILL DO THE REST. I pray that it works out for you and just be patient. We want things when we want it but God gives us things when we need it and HE is always on time.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    What I'm gonna say will sound corny and cheesy!

    you need to love yourself to be loved.

    there is time for everything. Dont just hate being alone.

    Use this opportunity to improve on yourself.

  • ?
    Lv 4
    4 years ago

    love is important in existence in a experience that u r felt on the best of the international, even as the affection is authentic then its an awsome feeling and upon getting genuine love its important in ur existence to snatch it forur finished existence. yet its not that type of component for which u have run after.sure its important to experience the authentic discomfort andhappiness of existence.

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  • ?
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    If you looking for love you will find it, at a Christian Church, Once you understand what Jesus did on a cross for you, I can't tell you how valuable you are to him, most people will flame me in here for saying that, but it's the truth.

    God Bless

  • 1 decade ago

    Love is important,. But more important is loving yourself and making yourself lovable. Once you do that others will notice you. Being anxious and nervous and down about not being "inlove" only makes it worse. Forget all about it... work on bettering yourself, you might be surprised.

  • 1 decade ago

    Yes it is because you can find a true love instead of doing this and that with everyone think about god.

  • 1 decade ago

    Fall in love and u will get the answer which u want.

  • 1 decade ago

    maybe... every1sayz derz a special someone for everyone in dis world..who knows..im waiting too...

  • Ben R
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    Realistic, but that doesn't mean you should stop trying.

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