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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 1 decade ago

which one would you choose : Passion or Comfort?

For a relationship, would you choose the one that makes you go " Oh my god!!" but always messes up or the one that makes you go " you're so nice" and you know won't hurt you?

Update:

ok maybe I didn't specify that you don't feel very physically attracted to the second one

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    comfort is best

  • 1 decade ago

    The "Oh my God's" don't last -- they burn out. If you go with the passionate one, just make sure you're realistic & know it is only a temporary situation, with a definite 'shelf life'. And if you continually pick the passionate one, and then act surprised, hurt, and devastated when it's over, you are just being a DRAMA QUEEN.

    GROW UP -- life is short -- do you want to spend it in comfort or overwhelming stress ? It's your choice.

  • 1 decade ago

    I might lose interest in a comfort zone, but there's nothing better than true passion. But in the situation you decribe, comfort would be better. You should really try to maintain both.

  • 1 decade ago

    Comfort wins over passion.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Are you a masochist? Comfort by the way you put it.

  • 1 decade ago

    pasion for sure if l could find it, comfort is just to boring.

  • 1 decade ago

    I want both

  • 1 decade ago

    hummm... comfort....

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