救命-請大家救救我

係今年3月到我暗戀左1個女仔, 但係我並唔識佢。7月做野好好彩同佢係同事, 識左佢,之後成日約佢出街。 我同佢係同學,1個星期有3日上堂都見到。幾乎成個9月我都同佢一齊。幾乎日日上佢屋企,日日同佢lunch, dinner。。。 成日同佢一齊溫書, 睇戯,送佢返屋企。。。 我自己覺得同佢真係好親密, 事實上都係,第1次約佢出街就連續出左4晚睇左3套戯全部都係12點場,日日上佢屋企, 我送個公仔比佢佢話只公仔係佢條仔,佢又送佢中意既手鏈比我。。。。 我認爲甘既狀態係比緊機會我。。。。。。真係同佢好親密, 親密到1碗面2個食,親密到成晚傾電話到2,3點, 到7點都有(第日要返學)。。。。

Update:

甘既關係一直維持到10月初, 我問佢可唔可以做我女朋友, 佢既答案係唔得, 因爲無feel,佢話其實佢8月中已經知道我中意佢, 但係佢一直以來的所作所爲我都覺得係比緊機會我,真係好親密, 我想問點解會甘既呢,佢到底係咩心態呢? 我真係好傷心, 好想死, 到底我又要點做呢? 依傢我地仍然係日日見幾乎,但係就無甘親密喇。。。 我想知到底佢到底唸緊咩呢?而我要唔要繼續追佢? 因爲我真係好中意佢 我個心好傷, 到底我要用咩心態去面對依段關係呢? 我好需要你地既幫助!

ps :佢7月中岩分手,個人好乖~!

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  • 1 decade ago
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    well...i soooooo understand how you feel...i had a bf...i hav been dyin to do evry single thing for him as long as he likes it...we hav gone out for 1 month..bt one day he said tha he wna break up...and the reason is tha...he doesnt wan to hav committment...he jz wana do whtevr he wans and be free....he said tha hes nt ready to go out wif sumone...n hes nt ready to hav the possession of sumone for himself...bt honestly while we are goin out......i dun mind whtevr he does as long as he luvs me...i dun mind if he spends time wif his friends more than me...i dun mind if the othr gurls flirt wif him (thers a gurl tha we both know LUV sittin on his laps HEAPS!!!)...i jz feel lik pain inside my heart...bt its okay as long as we are togethr..well..eventually..we are stil breakin up....

    what i wana say is..sumtimes....sum ppl just doesnt wan to take responsibility...they wana act lik gf/bf.....bt errr...just doesnt wan to have the name of BOYFRIEND & GIRLFRIEND...u get wht i mean eh??..bt i duno if this applies to hk gurlz or nt..coz i wen out wif a "gui jei"

    what i think abt ur case is.........i gues its betr to move on in ur life..coz what u guyz hav been doin are lik bf and gf....if she doesnt wan to be ur gf..its hard to hav anything happenin further...i wud recommend u to cut the pain short.

    its nt the end of ur life..there are stil heaps of gd chances out ther in the world.

    GD LUCKKKKK

    Source(s): my ownnnn opinion
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  • 1 decade ago

    其實我覺得你仲有機架,

    其實佢自己都唔清楚,冇辦法肯定你啫...

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  • jc
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    我經常都遇到類此的情況.

    女人係一種好煩的生物,非常注重精神上的愛,多與肉體上(包括埋經濟上的滿足),所以非常重視兩者靈魂的交流.因此你同個女仔有幾親密的行為,例如拖手仔、煲電話粥、擁抱、甚至有性行為,都吾等於你會係佢的真正男朋友.!

    所以女人可以一面同你拍拖,一面又默默地等待可以同佢有心靈上交流的白馬王子出現,而所持的理據是「有無feel?」,因此玩死不少壯男!

    至於女人是否天生鐘意水泡或騎牛搵馬,則不得而知!只知道男人是犯賤,會前仆後繼地為女死,為女亡!

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  • 1 decade ago

    如果你肯定你係愛佢的話,

    講 i love u

    咁唔一定要講 i love u 呢3隻字ge.....

    你可以用好多方法gah!唔一定要用口講既

    好似寫信,sms,msn/icq,,,

    冇必要驚啦!

    1. 你要用最誠懇既言語同佢直接講I Love You我愛你

    2. send message, msn, icq 同佢講, 但個人認為好無誠意......

    3. 講電話

    4. 用文字表達出黎!寫情書(例:

    沒有了你,留在這還有意◎思嗎??

    我掛念你還有意◎思嗎??

    對你的↑掛念↓,

    可以說是無數的

    但你會掛●念我嗎?

    你還會回§來嗎?

    你快樂我就快樂了!

    一定淋死呀>_<

    5. 玩暗示

    6. 用行動表示

    7. 唔識表達,最好便是送禮物,選一份有心思的,特別的禮物送給她吧!讓他可以常常帶住佢,記住您嘛!例如情侶Tee, 情侶飾物都可.

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    這些只係我的個人意見,只做參考!

    希望可以幫到你!~^_^~

    祝你好運!!!

    放馬去!!! 加油呀!!!努力呀!!!支持你!!!

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  • 1 decade ago

    我就覺得個女仔....因為唔習慣心靈突然空虛左而你咁o既o係佢身邊....有可能利用你去療情傷......一個對自己咁好o既人.....冇乜理由自己拒絕左佢先囉。你對得佢好,而佢又好意思受的話,何樂而不為呢?身邊有好野....一定會想辦法留o係身邊......不論果時佢有冇男朋友.....呢d係人o既私心....

    既然佢reject左你....咁你咪算囉....無謂將大家o既關係變得咁難睇丫....

    大方d.....見到面...笑下..之後咪走囉....積極走出心傷.....搵過個吧啦。

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  • 1 decade ago

    日日傾電話﹐ 起碼幾個鐘﹐ 有時傾天光。 有次睇電話單﹐ 同佢傾成幾千分鐘。 佢好遠搾黎同我食飯﹐ 送禮物比我﹐出去睇戲﹐ 行公園之類。 不過此終我地都系無野。 算系比緊機會佢﹐ 不過此終只系個比較親密既朋友。有D人只可以停留系 friend-zone﹐ 出唔到去。 可以同佢好親密﹐ 可以對佢好﹐ 不過淨系甘多。你甘一問佢做你女朋友﹐ 其實有三個可能﹐ 連朋友都無得做﹐ 一唔系就佢當乜都無發生甘繼續做親密好友﹐ 又劃者如果佢覺得你唔錯既話就考慮做你女朋友。 你既情況可能系佢岩岩分手﹐ 想比機會你﹐ 都系比機會你幫佢復原﹐ 到最尾當你問佢時﹐ 覺得你都唔系佢想要既人。 唔再甘親密﹐ 劃者唔想你再沉迷落去。

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