Question for women.?

Now I have a question that probably won't get a positive response from it, but I'll give it a shot. Why do many women blame men for so many issues. Now men definately do have their issues, but don't women also have theirs. Why can't we all stop casting stones, when if we took a good look at ourselves, we would see that we ALL have things to work on. Every single living breathing one of us. If we all worked on ourselves first before trying to work on everybody else, the world as we know it would be a much better place.

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Take no offense please in this comment. It is a serious unbiased question. I would ask this same question for men. It just so happens that I want to target one audience at a time. Mixing the two together into one survey would be chaotic.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    I so agree with you, if each person took responsibility & spoke honestly about their true feelings we would all get along way easier......i think people often assume what others think, therfore confusing relationships & comments made to them!.......thanks for having the courage to bring this up......lets take responsibility for our own issues!!!

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    You are so right. I am a 22 yr old female from new jersey. I will admit to many of us girls do blame a lot or everything that goes wrong on men. To me girls are just as bad as guys are, if not worse. we can cheat better, get away with a lot of things if we have a nice (_i_) or (o)(o). I belive women should grow up and face their mistakes. If they do that, i dont think they would have such a problem haveing men respect them the way they want to be respected.

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  • 1 decade ago

    I agree that at times the opposite sex does blame the other for a great many things. But we all have to realize that we come with issues that will probably never be solved. The key element here is TOLERANCE. We all need to learn to tolerate one another and just know that we all have things about us that could be changed for the better.

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  • Nisey
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    1 decade ago

    I think that people get all caught up in 'stereo-typing' people. "Oh, that must be a woman driver', or "It must have been a man that designed this". etc., etc., Men and women think differently, and people who don't take responsibility for their actions or part in a problem, look for a 'reason' to make themselves feel good, like they did no wrong, or simply cannot be honest, thereby they complain and 'cast stones' as you say.

    I think that as you start to deal with more mature women, you will see less and less of that 'blaming' issue. Sure, there will always be some around, but by and large, we live, we learn, and slowly but surely, we do get smarter-- all of us!

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  • 1 decade ago

    Well we women have a problem with looking at ourselfs....

    There is no perfect way to understand every single woman because every woman is unique and different in her own way, and each woman you meet might be in a completely different stage in her life.Knowing and Understanding These Stages is key to really know women. If a women has a proplem with loving herself she will always do the things you talked about in your question!Any type of past relationship may have crippled this womens self esteem.But we women need to learn the key word (self)...And that is your answer some people will never learn this but I got tired of making the same mistakes over and over and dating guys that weren't worth s**t so i got professional help...Ant type of problem any one is having if it can be avioded the problem begins with home!!!!

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  • 1 decade ago

    People are so different...The women you are talking about (those women who blame men for so many issues), talk from their own experience(present and past) and tend to generalize. Men do the same. It's just a matter of mentality and education. It's the way people are.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    You have great insight to peace and harmony hang on to that, not all women cast stones, its not easy for anybody when it comes to pain and heartache we all manage it differently. Men have issues and women have tissues, its a saying because women are know to be carriers of pain, hence childbirth, we are just made stronger for that, so at times we get bitter. Everyone just sometimes needs a hug so breathe and know hey maybe she just needs a hug, you might be surprised how easy a woman can turn into mush, good luck and big hugs to you!

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  • 1 decade ago

    I agree with you (I'm a girl) I do believe that everyone blames everyone. I believe the men blame the women just the same. Everyone has their own opinion. It sucks that that's the way it is, and I wish more people thought like you. Thats the way it probably always will be.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Woman and men, of course we all have issues, only some have more baggage then others. Yes we do need to learn to work on our issues, but first of all, one has to recognize that they have a problem. and then get help to solving it. what a better world we would live in, if we could all just get along!

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  • 1 decade ago

    You are right, but if people would stop blaming others they would have to face their own faults and deal with it. It is just easier to be that way for some. Good point, I agree with you

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