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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsOther - Family & Relationships · 1 decade ago

Well I really like this guy but...?

He's 18 almost 19 and i'm 14 almost 15 how and my mom doesnt approve at all we would be dating but im afraid what my mom would say what do i do?

Update:

well, hes not in it just for sex and stuff, i know because he told me he wouldnt until i was ready were really close and stuff but not officially dating, i dont think age really matters tho

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    He's too old for you and you're too young for him. His expectations will be to have a sexual relationship, and you would be better off waiting for that. Sounds like your mom is doing her job....let her do it!

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    He is an adult, you are still a minor, that is why your mother doesn't want you dating him. Being an adult he can be charged with either statutory rape (if you have sex), and be sent to jail or at the very least your mother could have him arrested for aiding the deliquincy of a minor. I strongly suggest you wait until you are old enough to date (in my book 16+) and until YOU turn 18 date only guys your own age. The term "Jail Bait" has a meaning and YOU are jailbait for him.

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  • wow. i have like the same situation..only my mom would probably approve of it. im 15 almost 16 and the guy i like is 18 almost 19. i can tell hes not into me for sex too. i dont think your too young at all. if you guys really like eachother, even if your mom doesnt approve, then definatly go for it. just make sure he doesnt make you do something you dont want to do. even though it sounds like hes fine. just be cautious and do what your heart tells you to do, dont let someone deny you love.

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  • 1 decade ago

    It is considered statutory rape if he ever have sex with someone uder 18. If you decide to continue the relationship with him just dont have sex until you're eighteen otherwise you could end up putting him in prison if your mom decides to prosecute. I am not trying to scare you, but that is the truth and it sucks to be put into prison for such a crime. It could really mess up his life if that ever happens.

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  • 1 decade ago

    As long as you are asking what your mum would say, you are too young to be seeing the guy. If it was the right thing to do, you would be sure in yourself. Wait until you are sure. If he is serious, he will also wait.

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  • smiley
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    i agree with your mother it's just wrong, she will eventually find out and things are that much harder on you, think about your education not guy's, your just a baby compared to him,the age difference is illegal in canada, you might want to end it with him before he gets charged with rape.

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  • 1 decade ago

    as long as you can trust the guy

    your mom is to influence you, not to control your life.

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  • 1 decade ago

    amazing,

    it is really amazing that a girl from west care about her mom wish.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    age doesnt matter

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