Would a girl, around 23 and up, ever like a guy that is not as talkative as she?

I like this girl, she is around 23 years old, she is really smart and confident with herself; she is outspoken, and very pretty.

Anyways, I am wondering if you match the description listed above, please help. What type of guys are you looking for? What are the characteristics you look for in a guy?

I really like this girl but I don't think I will have a chance with her. I am attractive but also VERY shy and hesitant with women. Please share your thoughts.

9 Answers

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    always set yr goal high and go for it you just dont know till you try. if you like this girl well ask her out. read tips on dating and more to help you on this site

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  • 1 decade ago

    you might really really have a hard time getting this woman, she is head strong and if youre not up to it, you will really just be placed on the backgroud

    but hey opposites do attract and complement one another

    for me , i am a very talkative woman , too confident most of the time, thats why shy guys cant get around me, i know that

    and i would really hate it if i talk to him and he cant converse with me,

    but its really dependent on who that man is, i also like shy men,i would hate it if a man would always try to dominate the conversation, if you are a shy guy but has the willingness to listen to that confident woman you are talking about then you have a great chance

    as long as she will see you are sincere, you love her for who she is, you are willing to let her take charge, but that does not mean that if you let her take charge that you would not be able to control her.

    you know shy men can control talkative woman in ways, learn how to do that

    confident women adore shy guys who have strong principles in life, shy yet confident, shy yet open minded, shy yet loving, just let her see you can and will be there for her

  • 1 decade ago

    I'm female and have the same problem really.

    My fella is the confident etc one, where as I am shy. But opposites do attract believe me :) It may have taken us a little longer to get to the stage we are now, but by taking things slow (for my benefit!), I think we have a really great relationship.

    Don't let it stop you from getting to know her and letting her know how you feel.

    I was honest with my guy from the beginning and told him I was shy and not very confident and he was so great about it. Maybe you could do the same ?

    Good luck :)

  • 1 decade ago

    I'm not a date matcher but, yes that is possible for a talker and a shy person to get along well. maybe she'll sooner or later let you become a bold person; just be yourself and act the way that you are supposed to, like mature and aware of what's going on around you. good luck and all the best.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    When I was dating my ex, I appreciated that he listened a lot. However sometimes I wish he would talk more, but I did appreciate his listening and that he was so attentive. The one thing I did love about him is that he made an effort to take the first step in asking me out. So when it comes to relationship steps, asking her out is a big one. I know it will take a lot of guts but a girl is really flattered when I guy makes the first move, even confident ones. :)

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    ALL women are different!

    We all like different things! No two women enjoy all of the same exact things but I don't think the shy thing is attractive to women that age. You're supposed to be mature and confident at that age.

  • 1 decade ago

    You guys would balance each other out try it! Dont let things like this in life hold you back! She would like you, she would try to bring the best out in you!

  • 1 decade ago

    It will not matter u r talkative or not What matter is ur attitude towards her May be she also like u. First off all tell her ur feeling.

  • it depends... maybe opposites attract but it wouldn't satisfy her for long... find a girl who knows how to appreciate you!

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