why is it, that when I have sex, it does not feel as good as masterbation?

Its almost to saying that I prefer porn over the real thing. I get more erotifyied. Have people had the same experience? I have only had sex like 3 times now, so I am not very experienced...are there any suggestions to making sex better than, or at least, on par withmasterbation?

Update:

Third answerer---so.....what is the point of having sex if I can just masterbate?

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    The reason why you prefer to masturbate to porn instead of loving a woman is because you are selfish. You prefer to gratify your lustful mind instead of satisfy the needs and desires of a woman. Therefore, you can not really satisfy a woman because when you have sex with a woman all as you are really doing is masturbating your body with that woman. Instead of using your hand you are using that woman's body. This proves it: what you think about when you masturbate with your hand and have sex with a woman are the same mental stimulus. You are thinking of something that will get you off. The true meaning of sex with a woman is to be connected with that woman to worship God. Sex with a woman in the purest sense is the closest to God we can get in a physical sense. But here lies the problem. God created the sexual act to be performed between a married man and woman to be enjoyed and to be procreative. To have children and to raise those children in a loving environment. When you don't do this and have sex outside of marriage and do what you are doing with porn than you are heaping on God's anger against you which will be evident on Judgment Day. The more you do it the more anger you store up against yourself. There will be a day of judgment and you will be accountable for all your offenses against a Holy God. What are you going to do? Doesn't this concern you? Jesus Christ died for your sins for you have done nothing but break God's Commandments in either word, thought, or deed your entire life. Unless you repent of your sins to God and trust Jesus to save you from the wrath of God then you will face God's just anger and suffer for eternity. Please, turn to the Savior of the world and repent. Please do it now!

  • 1 decade ago

    masterbation is good cuz you know exactly how to do something you like. sex requires the other person to figure that out or have you tell them ,,masterbation you can go right to it

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    stop masterbation and stop watching porns for some time and try real things after some gap ...it works out for me ..hope u will find it useful and dont feel guilty ..its very normal ...

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    sex is just sex without love. if you ever really love someone you will be amazed how sex changes to something allmost spiritual in nature..sex with yourself is the same as with others are close to it.because it is just sex. hopefully you will be in love one day . good luck.

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  • 4 years ago

    intercourse provides you with a lots extra desirable orgasm. think of the main efficient orgasm you have had considering you started masturbating. Now think of it ten time extra desirable, and observed via some extra each and every jiffy. Does that grant you with a concept?

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    well with masturbation you have more control over what's going on...some people prefer that..but I think with more exposure you'll come to appreciate other kinds of sex equally satisfying.

    and with masturbation your guaranteed that you never have to look your best!!LOL

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    You obviously are doing something wrong.Try waiting until you are in love,or better yet,married to be with someone.Stick with masturbation until then.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    yes, get porn star girl friend.

  • ?
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    You like to feel like you are in control.

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