What does everyone think?

If someone acts like they REALLY are into you one second ,then the moment you show the smallest drop of mutual interest they act ice cold (almost offended),like they don't even want to be personable with you? It's very irritating and confusing !!! I need some sound advice!

Update:

I'm ready to just throw my hands up and call it quits!.One minute they act like I'm the most beautiful woman the've ever laid eyes on (they are EXTREMELY attractive,sothe attention feels REALLY good)and the next I'm chopped liver!It's exhausting and I'm ready to toss in the towel!

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  • 1 decade ago
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    my advice is to get away from this person before you fall too deep. this person is bad news and it could be a sign of a player. theres no future with someone like that. trust me. i dont know if this is a personal matter for you but i take the matter seriously. theres too much drama with that. dont trust this person with your emotions. theyll just play on it.

    Source(s): experience
  • susie
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    I've been the person that's been really into a guy, and then after a few dates I was ready to tell him to get lost in not the nicest way. When you see a certain side of a person, sometimes its not a good one, and it overtakes any wonderful feelings you had about a person.

  • 1 decade ago

    Maybe that person is not ready for any kind of a relationship, they just want to have a friend to hang out with. If I were you I'd just keep it cool and just be friends, no hints about anything else.

    Good luck!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Not everyone will act like that. If someone is playing a power trip on you, pay them back in kind and move on to someone else. Sounds like you want that particular somebody to like you. It also sounds like they're not worth the effort.

    Lots of fish in the sea.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Must just be the chase! Everyone wants what they can't have. I don't know how anyone ever gets together with all the games! If you don't play hard to get they ignore you and if you do for to long they give up! Sorry I sure don't know the exact amount of time we are supposed to play hard to get! Maybe some fella could pinpoint it for us!

  • 1 decade ago

    First, men are arrogant. Second, they want to call the shots. Third, when you show interest it gives them room for glorification in gossip to their friends. If you can move past this arrogant male, this would be the sound advice for you. Someone is out there who will appreciate you for you and return your interest.

  • 1 decade ago

    Leave him alone. Its a game some guys play it is annoying, but sooner or later if you act like your not interested (or looking at other people) they will show more attention to you. Guys love a chase, but its up to you if you want to play the "catch me if u can" game.

  • 1 decade ago

    It's called mind games, when they see they can have it, they don't want it. Cruel, but true. I apologize if that hurts, but you are probably better than them sense you didn't know that. Move on to better things sweetie. It's not worth the heartache that road will lead you on.

  • ?
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    Yes it is annoying...and since head games are for psychiatric patients, I would move on and find a normal grown up to spend time with.

  • 1 decade ago

    I hope you are not married to this person! It seems to me that he or she is very controlling and will try to change who you really are, or at least make it very hard for you to be who you are and to do what you enjoy to do most.

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