I have a big problem!!! plz help and see details....? HELP!!!! PLZ?

i have alot of friends but only 20% of them are guys....i guess its because im shy becouse i never talk to them...Im not sure why but if i dont talk to them than they dont talk to me......Im not sure if its because im shy and i barly talk or what....Maybe i need to stop being shy.....what ur opinion

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IM NOT GAY!!!!!

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Yea, stop being shy and try and get to know them.

  • 1 decade ago

    unfortunately, often when one is too shy to approach someone, it does lead to being abit More lonely than you would like. Try to do things that give you confidence. Slowly, work up to your shyness..it's not going to lessen over night. Start with small groups..or even just one friend. Confide in the person how you feel. Sometimes just admitting out right that you are shy helps. It helped me alot. I'm still shy..but I can over come it most times and carry on a convo to someone...You might want to even see a councilor or someone who can help you with shyness..and work to wards you being more out going socially...but remember..being quiet is ok..as long as it doesn't bother you. We are all not meant to be out going and loud. :-)

  • stred
    Lv 4
    4 years ago

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  • 1 decade ago

    I would try to be less shy but do not change yourself just because you want guy friends. It's okay to have a lot of girl friends as long as they are just friends. If you really want guy friends then talk to people and try to be more friendly.

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  • 1 decade ago

    i think that ur being shunned by the guys for hanging w/ so many girls. it makes it seem like they all like u and won't go out w/ the other guys. don't b shy, just go out and have a grand old time. don't worry about wat other people think b/c if u think about it, in 10 years will u even b seeing those people again? nope, so have fun w/ life.

    find an outgoing guy to attach urself too, hang w/ the guys a lot, share the love (aka girls)

  • 1 decade ago

    Being shy is fine. Be yourself for sure. All you need to do is use your eyes to send out the signal that you want him get.

  • 1 decade ago

    wait.. so,you have a lot of friends, but only 20% are guys... so like.. 80% are girls?? well... girls are a lot easier to talk to, well thats my opinion, but for guys,... hmm, what you should try is... just going up to, if there is, a big crowd of guys, and join into the conversation... then, they'll start noticing you, or you could start making jokes, and telling it to people, then they would think your funny, and hang with you

  • 1 decade ago

    u should never be shy, shy gets u no where, say whatever you feel like whenever you feel like it and things will go alot better

  • 1 decade ago

    Woah, you must be a ladies man! Well I would suggest just being yourself and sharing what you think with them. Challenge yourself to be outgoing!

  • 1 decade ago

    im a girl.

    please dont stop being yourself. no one said girls arent attracted to shy guys. im sure you have more girl-friends than you think. BE YOU HUN.

    im trying to win the yahoo answers prize please help =D

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