My fiance wants to get married next April, but i will be about 8 months pregnant what should i do?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Talk to him about it.

    You should sit down and have a conversation with him.

    Are you in a rush? Can you wait until the baby?

    At 8 months crazy things can happen, and no one can trully know how long it will be until your baby decides to come.

    This is your wedding too, so speak up to HIM if you don't agree. Be honest, and LISTEN TO HIM TOO!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Dont plan a wedding at 8 months pregnant. You never know what will happen with a pregnancy, the baby can come early and all of the hard work and money put into a wedding will be wasted. If you want to get married before the baby is born, do it earlier.

  • 1 decade ago

    Just remember one thing beside that a relationship decision takes two, is that marriage is suppost to be a life long commitment so waiting longer than April shouldn't be an issue. Then again you could get married within the next few months before you start to show.

  • 1 decade ago

    Go ahead and get married. You will still make a beautiful bride even though you'll be 8 months pregnant. Then when the baby gets older you can show him or her a picture of you guys on your wedding day and tell him or her that they were inside of your belly on that day. Congratulations and good luck.

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  • 1 decade ago

    If you dont have a problem being pregnant and getting married then dont do anything. He probably wants to get married before you have the baby so the baby wouldn't be born out of wedlock. You could do something very simple with a justice of the peace and have something bigger with family and friends after the baby is born. If you feel you would rather wait to do anything until after the baby is born then sit down and talk to him and tell him how you feel. good luck and congratulations. And welcome to your new little bundle of joy.

  • Jenn
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    If you not want to be hugely pregnant when you get married then either get married soon before you show or wait until after the baby is born.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    David's Bridals www.davidbridals.com makes beautiful maternity gowns. My girlfriend was 7 months pregnant and looked radiant. We had so much fun and the wedding was meaningful. They presented the "baby" a tiny little ring for when she is born. What a great story when she gets older!

  • Lydia
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    Get married now, asap, just a civil wedding. You've already put the cart before the horse, forego any idea of a "dream" wedding, your circumstances have been altered. Do the right thing here.

  • 1 decade ago

    Go for it! I was 6 months pregnant when I got married. If you love this man and want to spend the rest of your life with him, what's stopping you? Obviously he loves you enough not to mind. My husband thought I was even more beautiful marrying him and carrying his child. Take his lead!

  • 1 decade ago

    Explain to him that you'd rather walk down the aisle, not waddle. :) In all seriousness, say to him that if you're that close to giving birth, you'd love your child to share in the day. Ask him if he can wait until July or August when you've given birth and starting to feel comfortable in your own skin again. It takes two people to agree to a wedding, so if you're not comfortable with April (for valid reason), stick to your guns!

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