I need major F-ing Help!!!!!!?

He is 22 I said stop calling since he wanted more space to figure out life and "Do him" he said that meant he wont be in a relationship with nobody. I believe that. Just dont want to have my heart be pulled. Now he is calling!! WHY? I told him it was over and that the decision was his. What now?

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    It´s simple men looove what they ´can´t have. When they have you there they loose interest but if he realizes he has to put some effort in it his interest will be renewed. You need to take your time and make him win you over, he sould work his *** off for you make him go that extra mile.

  • 1 decade ago

    I think he just wanted to f*** other people and not be in a relationship with you then something happened he probably didn't get none from other person now he is trying to get back with you cause he made a poor decision which is he is thinking with his ***** instead of his heart he sounds shellfish just be care full Men are very good at their game. Just get your game in gear so that no one can take advantage of your heart and also other areas as well { keep your head up} don't let it get to you

  • 1 decade ago

    At 22, you can't expect a sensible answer. Raging hormones, and a very vast and contradictory world of love out there. If you want him, tell him you can hang, but just as friends, for 3 months. If you don't tell him that you are glad he want's to talk to you, but you've had a change of heart too! give him the "let's be friends speech".

  • 4 years ago

    the way I interpret your question is "Why am I having those issues?" i do not understand. all of us at one time or yet another have problems with 1 variety or yet another. i'm sorry that you supply up college at age 16. you somewhat choose an practise to stay away from being pushed round or insulted. inspite of an practise there are continually those who will placed you all the way down to purpose to make themselves look extra ideal. transforming into extra ideal knowledgeable and wiser will provide help to push aside them and by no skill waste your power in conflict with them. p.c.. your own fights. the genuine ones, no longer the trivial ones they conflict to impose on you. And alongside the way you'll locate out the thanks to extra effectively exhibit your self, in a fashion that makes cursing completely unnecessary. once you curse you lose a number of your power. sturdy success. you've a sturdy spirit.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    how long was the time off suppose to happen and was it a deal that you two would get back together also he could be checking up on you to see if you are talking to some one else and in that aspect it is one of two things or both ...he is talking to another female or he has no trust in you which means there is no love so i say this move on it sounds like head games with him

  • Hi girlie ive always said if he needs some time give him some time like........ forever . Sorry but it really pi**** me off and what or whos he doing while hes making his mind up? it just always seems suspect to me so i say fu** him youll feel so empowered again itl all be just a laugh to you while hes left hanging this time! in other words let the phone ring out! good luck!!!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    It looks to me like he's keeping you around as a "booty call". He wants you to "Do him" as long as there's no commitment. Hell, you can get that anywhere!! If you keep lettin him play you like that, then you're the fool!!!! It's really not that hard to figure out. Both of you act like you're still in high school. Oops, I'm gonna leave that alone. LOL

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Obviously the guy has some issues. Do you reall want someone with baggage? I'd move on.

  • 1 decade ago

    He's playing with you. He don't know what he wants. Just moved on. You could do better.

  • 1 decade ago

    It sounds like he is just making you confused & miserable. How is that good for you? Do you really want that headache?

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