help ppl..help me?
i insulted my bfs half-sis, i said things as like she is a whore. my bf is always understanding to me. but that was tooooo much.. he said *** YOU to me.then the apologize and add that he isnt sorry.. he dont want me to call him again, (im white)and he said he will stick wit his blak queens.he hurt and insult me.
i love him. its ME that cause him to got angry...
HOW HOW can i hv him bak?
PLEASE HELP,he is my all.
give me all kind knowleged that can help to get a man bak!!
i never met his sis!
WE R IN DIFFERENT COUNTRIES NOW
everything is ok now!!
he said he couldnt delete me,cuz im soo deep in his heart.
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
First step, take a time out for cooling off. During this time, ask yourself why you said such a hurtful thing about his half sister. Be honest with yourself. Then ask yourself why you would act on your thoughts and say something so painful. If you have honest answers to these questions, and you can be vulnerable, approach your bf with a sincere apology and explain the underlying reasons you acted the way you did. Don't defend your actions. Just lay out the truth. If he cares about you, he will accept your honesty and kindness, and the relationship may be stronger than ever.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
You can start by apologizing to his sister and say you were having a bad PMS day and you needed to blow up at someone, unfortunately it just happened to be her. That's task 1. Now you have to wait a little, say few days. The tell him you miss him, and your sorry you were just having a bad day. If he is understanding things should be OK. And in the future don't pick on people!
- 1 decade ago
IT SEEMS IT'S YOU MISTAKE, YOU ARE SAYING THAT YOU LOVE HIM TOO MUCH THEN HOW CAN YOU SAY SO TO HIS SISTER, NOW I CAN ONLY SUGGEST YOU TO CALL HIM AND APOLOGIES TO HIM AND SAID THAT IT WAS YOUR FAULT AND BOCZ. OF THAT YOU ARE VERY SORRY, AND EVEN THOUGH I LOVE YOU SO MUCH BUT I WILL NOT CALL YOU TO DISTURB AGAIN.
I THINK WHAT I AM TELLING YOU TO DO IS A TRICK TO HAVE A WIN WIN SITUATION I AM SURE WHEN YOU SAY SO HE WILL CALL YOU AFTER AND HE WILL TOO APOLOGIES FOR HIS BEHAVIOR AND IF NOT THEN TAKE IT LIKE HE DON'T CARE FOR YOU THE WAY YOU THINK BCOZ. AFTER APOLOGY THERE IS NO REASON NOT TO CALL AND BE NICE I THINK IF HE REALLY LOVES YOU HE WILL DEFINITELY CALL YOU , SO TRY THIS.
IF IT WORK LET ME KNOW BCOZ. IT TOTALLY PRACTICAL EXAMPLE. AN IT'S ALWAYS GOOD TO BE SORRY FOR THE PROBLEM YOU HAVE NEVER DONE YOU GAIN MORE RESPECT. SO TRY IT.
- 1 decade ago
offer to take him out, get him high off some weed or some liqour ...take him back to the crib...unzip his zipper and get a mouthful...swallow the semen like Sprite...let him punish the beaver...doggystyle and/or anal....freakum girl....let him know that you're the baddest chick Black or white.....or just make sure you're in some tight outfits anytime he sees you in the hood...play it cool ..be respectful...sooner or later, he'll come around....stop acting pressed....work your magic on him and stop worrying about his sister...if she's a pickle jar...let her get her dill kosher on.