Where to Find a 40A DPDT Automotive Relay?

Looking for a cost effective dust shielded 40A (30A would probably do) automotive type DPDT relay. Pref with spade (1/4") connector type contacts. I have tried www.digikey.com, www.painlessperformance.com, www.newark.com... running out of places... please help.
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