im a rather large in size . how do i convince my girlfriend to do anal?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    You shouldn't try to convince her to do anything she doesn't want to do. But starting with a vibrator and other techniques to help her relax the muscles prior to attempting to insert the penis will help. The muscles around the anus can stretch quite a bit but it takes a few minutes and she really needs to relax to allow this to happen.

    If you do try - read this for more tips.

    Make sure and get a very good lube. One idea is too start with a small vibrator, this can really help loosen the muscles and help her relax. My gf really really enjoys me tonguing her first - she really relaxes. But the most overlooked thing with anal sex is how hard the man is. If he isn't rock hard, his penis will tend to bunch up as it enters her anus and this is what causes most of the pain. Make sure he is completely hard (get Viagra if needed) before trying - this will allow him to slide in with less friction and pain. Have him ease in just a bit, as soon as she feels even a little pain, have him back out a bit, otherwise she will tighten up causing it to hurt more. Then have him ease back in and she should try pushing (puckering) just a bit as he does.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    go get a ho..so much easier and you dont have to convince her..just wear a jimmy

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    normally i just don't say anything and get humpin with reckless abandonment "accidentally" slip out and slam it right in the stink tube them say something like well its already there

  • 1 decade ago

    what does how fat you are have anything to do with it? just lose some weight i guess

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  • 1 decade ago

    BE CAREFUL.HOW LARGE?

  • 1 decade ago

    u dont

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