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Anonymous asked in Beauty & StyleSkin & Body · 1 decade ago

"Real women have curves"? What the...?

Im naturally skinny, i dont really like being this skinny, but does that make me not REAL? Men always say they prefer a fuller figure, but hey- where does that leave us the "skinny but not on purpose" group?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    LOL!!! Ain't this a trip....usually the big girls complain that they can't get a man cuz they're not skinny.....now you're saying the opposite.......girlfriend, a man is gonna like you skinny or fat IF he likes you....I know some men who wouldn't touch a big girl (thick or fat) and I know some who don't like their girls to be smaller than a size 3.....everyone have different preferences......believe me there's some dude out there that thinks you're hella sexy, wait for it, you'll see! AND YES YOU"RE REAL!

  • 1 decade ago

    You are incorrect in stating that men prefer a fuller figure. Many men are attracted to skinny gals and could care less about curves.

  • 1 decade ago

    Yeh thats anoying, u shouldnt take it litteraly though because it was made up by people mainly to make selfconsiese women with big hips feel better, or even obese women feel better many man are arrtracted to curves but some like slender figures everyone likes different things ... oviously lol.

    Its like people think women will always like the muscly men i prefere slim n trim men to be honest aslong as there in shape i like a tall slim man. Of course your a real women the phrase means nothing!

  • Paul H
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    Medically speaking you are better off to be thin. The movie is about being accepted as you are. As to what a man likes in the way a woman looks ask a million men and you will get a million different answers.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    umm they're just trying to make the ppl who are not like you feel better about themselves. my preference is curves... i hate to see twig shaped chics but thats just me. lots of ppl prefer that type and then lots other prefer something else.

    all the add is tryin to do is say that women come in different shapes not just to stick thin. they're not trying to insult they're just tryin to empower the ppl who are blessed enough to be skinny. which is a lot more if you compare the numbers to how many are skinny.

    i'm slim but i don't particularly like my size. not because i want to be REALLY thin , thats just a couple pds away but bcuz then I'll look wierd in my opinion. some ppl consider me skinny but i prefer slim:-). I want to have a nice hour-glass shape. I just need to stop being lazy and tone.

  • 1 decade ago

    Oh come on girl, get over it. You are beautiful just as God made you. You know the rap. But it is true! Believe you me, it is FAR better to be skinny as you age than to be larger. Gravity won't hgit you so hard, you will be able to remain active longer and avoid some health problems. And there are plenty men who prefer thinner girls. So relax will ya?

  • Jess
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    Real women are women who know they are real. Believe in yourself and know who and what you are. You are a woman who happens to be skinny, and you will find the man that loves you and sees that you love yourself, and he will not beable to resist that, no matter how you look. You are beautiful and you are a real woman. Variety is the spice of life, and my dear, you are variety.

  • 1 decade ago

    Not all men say that !!! Some much prefer thin girls. Like my son, for instance, and my husband is pretty much that way, too!! Just hold your head up high, and be as sweet as you can. You will find one who appreciates that slender build.

  • 1 decade ago

    let's swap... ;-) naw, seriously, there are those who like curvy and there are those who like skinny. and you definitely have the fashion designers on your side, most clothes you get don't really make allowances for a womanly (and i don't mean that as a euphemism for fat, i mean womanly) figure. don't worry, it's not about the way you're built, it's about the way you feel about yourself.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    The naturally slender.

    My daughter is a stick. She eats and nothing stays.

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